3rd Generation Spouses
Surname |
Given Name |
Spouse of |
Hawk(e)sworth |
Sara(h) |
Robert
Fretwell |
Bulkeley
(Bulkley) |
Alice |
Robert
Fretwell |
Fawley |
Thomas |
Mary
Fretwell |
Hirst |
Margaret |
Thomas
Fawley |
Huntington
(wid) |
Elizabeth |
Francis
Fretwell |
? |
Mary |
John
Fretwell |
Fretwell
(wid) |
Mary |
Richard M
Dickinson |
Ant |
Robert |
Grace
Fretwell |
Walker |
George |
Grace
Fretwell |
Arnold |
Stephen |
Ann
Fretwell |
Denton |
Easter
(Easther) |
Joshua
Fretwell |
Taylo(e)r |
Ann |
Joshua
Fretwell |
Coldwell |
Joseph |
Ann
Fretwell |
Dixon |
Ann |
Joseph
Coldwell |
Robert Fretwell
Robert, only son of Robert of West Bretton and his second wife Susannah
(nee Helliwell), was baptised in West Bretton on 28 July 1713. Referred to
as “Robert Fretwell of Cinder Hill in the parish of Cawthorne, Yorks” he
was described in the entry in the Familae Minorum Gentium as “of
Yorkshire, Gent.”
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Cinder Hill
Farm - Home of the Fretwells |
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The Remains of the Cinder Hill Tannery (From The Making of Barnsley,
Brian Elliot) |
Like his father before him, Robert Jnr was twice-married. His first
marriage, when he was around 22 years old is recorded in the Parish
Register of Silkstone as occurring in 1735/36:
Robert in the Chapelry of Cawthorne and parish of Silkstone, married
p. Licence to Sara Hawksworth of Denby in the parish of Penistone.
This union was very short and apparently childless. Sara may have died
prematurely, as Robert married again when he was around 25, his second
wife being Alice Bulkeley (variant Bulkley).
Alice, baptised at Whittington on 28 December 1704, was one of four
children, and the second daughter born to Arthur Bulkeley, of Stanlowe
near Leek in Staffordshire, and himself son of one Thomas Bulkeley, Gent.,
and wife Alice. Arthur married Elizabeth Lowe, daughter of Henry Lowe of
Whittington, in 1700.
It is interesting to speculate as to the circumstances under which Robert
would have met Alice. The answer may lie in Robert's fairly widespread
business interests, which would have required him to travel some
distances. Maybe he had some business dealings with the Bulkley family,
although we do not know how Mr Bulkley earned his living.
The couple were married on 27 July 1738 at Whittington, Derbyshire. There
were 4 children born to Robert and Alice, and their baptisms are recorded
in the Cawthorne Parish Register.
Children of Robert Fretwell and Alice
Bulkeley (Bulkley)
Name |
Born/Baptised |
Died/Buried |
Thomas |
1739 |
1799 |
Elizabeth |
1740 |
? |
Alice |
1742 |
1796 |
Susannah |
1748 |
Aft 1771 |
He presumably took some interest in the affairs of his local church, and
shared the enthusiasm of the parishioners for the planned extensions, for
which Thomas Cockshutt, incumbent, had sought permission from the
Archbishop of York which was granted as follows:
“…where ye said Inhabitants being thrice publickly called & none
appearing to show cause to the contrary We have decreed and do by these
presents grant this Our Order unto you ye said THOMAS COCKSHUTT Clerk to
erect or build or cause to be erected or built a convenient Loft or
Gallery near ye Belfry of the said Church to contain in length Twenty
foot and in breadth Seventeen foot or thereabouts for the use of ye
Parishioners and Inhabitants of ye said Parish To sit kneel and hear
Divine Service and Sermons…Given at York under ye Seale of Our Office
this Nineteenth day of August in ye year of Our Lord One Thousand Seven
Hundred and Thirty.”
However, it is not likely that Robert made any direct financial
contribution towards the extensions because he was not, at the time that
the ‘rewards’ were handed out, one of the recipients. On 23 January
1731(/32) Thomas Cockshutt reports and assigns the pews to be allocated to
those whose donations made the work possible:
“Whereas I THOMAS COCKSHUTT have erected a Loft or Gallery in ye
Church of Cawthorne…And whereas ye persons whose names are hereunto
subjoyn’d have paid ye due proportion to ye expense of erecting ye said
Loft upon condition of their having ye seats pews or closets therein…for
ye use of themselves their heirs or assigns for ever…Now ye seats pews
or closets hereby appropriated and ye persons to whom they are so
appropriated are as follow viz ye seats on ye North side of ye said Loft
or Gallery…"
Robert Fretwell did eventually secure a pew in the Church, by assigned
transfer in 1738 from Mr James Oates.
Shortly after his second marriage we find him having moved from Cinder
Hill, and now involved in the tanning business, which he carried out at
Potterton, an outlying hamlet in the township and parish of
Barwick-in-Elmet, liberty of Pontefract, 7 miles from Tadcaster.
Robert also acquired property in the Barwick-in-Elmet area after it had
passed through a series of complicated transactions. William Ramsden of
Longley in 1610 held the manor of Barwick, with other other property, and
one Edward Copley also had a substantial holding, which was acquired by
the Ramsden family by 1633. The property, described as the
“…capital messuage or manor house of Potterton with its lands and
‘all the pews, closets, seats, forms and stalls’ in Barwick Church
usually occupied with the manor house…”
then passed through a number of hands until it came into the hands of
Robert, who had already purchased the tannery.
There had been a tanning enterprise at Potterton for some time before
Robert took over the business. Before him, the Vevers family had been
connected with tanning in Potterton—the first known being one Richard
Vevers, a tanner who in 1608-9, acquired by fine from John Gascoigne lands
in Potterton including a messuage, a barn, garden, orchard, 47 acres of
land, 3 acres of meadow, 30 acres of pasture, and common on turbary and
pasture, paying the sum of £60 sterling. Another Richard Vevers, probably
a grandson of the former, received from John Gascoigne of Parlington, on
20 July 1706, an assignment of a small part of the lord’s waste in
Potterton, presumably for the purpose of extending the tanning yard. In
1732 Richard Vevers mortgaged this enclosure to John Shackleton of Ripon
for £100 and he, in 1744, sold it to Robert Fretwell who also bought from
Shackleton other lands which had been mortgaged to him in 1732 by the Rev.
William Vevers. Robert settled the tanning yard and these other estates on
his wife, Alice.
But Robert had a number of business interests apart from the tanning
operation, and his property interests in Potterton. The extent of Robert’s
wheeling and dealing is confirmed by the numerous deeds relating to
Robert’s transactions. Apart from Potterton Hall, Robert had widely spread
property interests. He acquired Cinder Hill farm Hall Royd Farm in
Cawthorne, and Bickerton Hall from his cousins. In addition, he had
property at Mirfield, the birthplace of his mother, at Kexby, west of
York, and at Tadcaster, where water and windmills formed a part of his
property at Tadcaster Grange Farm. From Tadcaster he carried on the
business of a lighterman and carrier. Here he owned wharves and warehouses
and his sloops, lighters and other vessels were trading between Tadcaster
and Hull. He also had waggons and carts employed in the carriage of goods
between Tadcaster and Leeds, and quantities of cut timber, leather, hides,
bark, and utensils belonging to the trade of a tanner.
Parish Church - Barwick in Elmet
As a mark of his social standing and the esteem in which Robert was held,
or perhaps because he could afford the honour or it was his by right of
ownership, he was, in 1749, allotted a pew in the Parish Church. The
citation reads:
Matthew by Divine Providence Lord Archbishop of York to our well
beloved in Christ Robert Fretwell Gentleman a parishioner and inhabitant
of and within the parish of Barwick-in-Elmet in our diocese of York
Greeting. Whereas by our right as Ordinary it does and ought to belong
to us to assign allot and confirm convenient seats stalls or pews and
sittings to all and singular the parishioners and inhabitants of every
parish or chapelry within our diocese of York. And whereas it hath been
made known to us on your behalf that there was and now is a certain seat
stall or pew situate in the south side of the north Isle [sic] of the
parish church of Barwick-in-Elmet adjoining on the east to the seat or
stall of Robert Dawson on the west to that of John Wood and John Varley
on the south to that of Mr Vevers and opening on the north into the
north Isle containing in length six feet two inches and in breadth three
feet eleven inches. And whereas we have been petitioned on your behalf
that we by out authority would assign and confirm the above to you and
your family to sit kneel and pray and hear divine service and sermons.
We therefore being willing to comply with your request do by these
presents assign allot and confirm the said seat stall or pew to you the
said Robert Fretwell and your family for the uses aforesaid so long as
you shall continue to be a parishioner and inhabitant and duly frequent
the said church.
Given at York under the Seal of our Consistory Court the tenth day of
November, 1749”
The Church records also show that it was an occasional customer of Robert
who, in 1752, received £1-0-8 for the sale of two horse hides.
The extent of Robert’s wheeling and dealing is confirmed from comments in
a letter from WEF to the incumbent of the Barwick in Elmet Church
referring to the account of Reverend Colman. WEF states that the deeds
relating to Robert’s transactions are numerous and he had seen a good many
of them at Wakefield. Several of the Spencer Stanhope Collection title
deeds to Hall Royd Farm make reference to Robert Fretwell and by 1751 he
was raising money on a mortgage of his Potterton property, and in 1757 he
conveyed it to trustees for the benefit of his creditors. In one such
deed, dated 1758, it is duly recorded that Robert Fretwell with a wife
Alice, late of Cinder Hill, now of Potterton in the parish of Barwick in
Elmet, Yorks, tanner, with a number of other persons, sells Hall Royd to
John Spencer. Hall Royd Farm appears to have been part of the estate
Cinder Hill estate. The Barr family bought back Cinder Hill from the
Spencer Stanhopes around 1960.
Hall Raw (Royd?) Farm
From a selection of John Nattes
Drawings of Cawthorne (1808-1809
reproduced in Barry Jackson, Cawthorne 1790-1990
This financial disgrace was further compounded when he was removed from
the ranks of the Conservators of the Tadcaster Wharfe, a position he is
recorded as holding in 1758.
The following references are to deeds held in the Hull University
Manuscripts and Archives database, and attest to a flurry of land and
property transactions over the period 1753 to 1760.
8-9 October 1753; Lease and Release for £1200: John Cleaver to Robert
Fretwell of Potterton tanner and wood merchant
1-2 November 1753; Mortgage for £2000: Robert Fretwell to Katherine
Nevile of Chevet widow
12 June 1754; Agreement for Sale: £1200: Robert Fretwell, gent., to
Dame Sarah Dawes of Escrick: messuage and lands in Kexby
3-4 July 1754; Lease and Release:
John Baird of Brayton esq, and wife Mary
Jeremiah Rawson of Bradford esq
John Fretwell of London (1st cousin, once removed to Robert) now of
Tadcaster gent, and Robert Fretwell of Potterton gent
Francis Fretwell of Kirk Hamerton gent (1st cousin, once removed to
Robert, brother of John)
For £2850: freehold parts of parts of messuages and lands at Priestly
Green in Hipperholm and at Sowerby; and messuage and closes at Kexby. In
trust for R.F.
30 July 1756; Mortgage for £600: Robert Fretwell to William Read
jnr., of Leeds Merchant
1-2 February 1760; Lease and Release for £2800 in all: Katherine Nevile,
William Read, Robert Fretwell and trustees for his creditors to John
Stanhope of Horsforth esq., John Spencer of Cannonhall esq., and Edmund
Lodge of Leeds merchant.
A notice in the Leeds Intelligencer of Tuesday 27 July 1762 advised :
"To be let on Monday the sixth of September next, at Mr. Todd's the
"White Horse" in Tadcaster, the Navigation from Hull to Tadcaster and
the Mills, Grounds, Wharfs and Wharehouses there used, in carrying on
the said Navigation. In attendance will be given for purpose, by ten
o'clock in the morning, Sir William Wentworth, Mr. Lascelles, Mr. Glover
and Mr. parker, the acting trustees of the Estates and effects of Mr.
Robert Fretwell having entered upon the said Navigation, Mills, Grounds,
Wharfs and Wharehouses."
At the end of 1762, when he was approaching his 50th year, Robert sailed
for India, having appointed as his attorneys his son Thomas, William Hill
of Tadcaster, and his nephew, John Fretwell of Tadcaster, Mercer. On 15
September, 1766, Robert Fretwell, now of Chittagong in Bengal, released
the mortgaged premises to Robert Denison of Leeds in consideration of
£1,160. In 1771, Alice Fretwell, widow of Robert, with her son Thomas,
conveyed to Robert Denison her life interest in Potterton. The details of
these holdings acquired by Robert Dennison are: the dwelling house in
Potterton with 18 acres of ground, and the adjoining estate, mainly
farming land, consisting of 135 acres 2 roods 4 perches. Thus Robert not
only lost his own substantial holdings, but he was also forced to
surrender the properties, including Cinder Hill and Bickerton Hall, which,
as we shall see, had been the birthright of the nephew of his cousin
Francis.
The Ancestry India Deaths and Burials, 1719-1948, lists Robert Fretwell as
having been buried at Calcutta, Bengal India, on 24 February, 1769. His
occupation was recorded as Free Merchant. The Leeds Intelligencer
of 22 May 1870 belatedly confirmed Robert's death.
The last ship arrived from Bengal brings advice of the death of
Robert Fretwell, Esq; formerly of Poterton [sic], near Tadcaster, in
Yorkshire, well known in that county for his extensive connections in
trade, in which meeting with a continued series of misfortunes, about
seven years ago, at an advanced age, he determined to quit his native
country and go to the East-Indies, with a fixed resolution to
re-establish his family in that affluence from which his many heavy
losses in trade had reduced them, or perish in the attempt; his death is
greatly lamented by all his acquaintances as in him were united the
tender husband, the affectionate parent, the sincere friend, and the
agreeable companion..
Alice Fretwell, left no doubt in straitened circumstances, outlived Robert
by nearly twenty-one years, her death being reported in the Leeds
Intelligencer of Tuesday 5 January 1790.
Sunday se'nnight died at Chesterfield, aged 87, Mrs. Fretwell, the
widow and relict of Mr. Robert Fretwell, formerly of Potterton, near
this town.
Mary Fretwell
Mary was the first born of Johannes (John) Fretwell and Ann (née
Woodhead), and was baptised in December 1689 (or 1690, as there are two
references) at the All Saints Church, Cawthorne.
MARY FRETWELL baptized Decem the 28th
MARY FRETWELL bapt December the 27
Just two months before her 18th/19th birthday, on 23 December 1707, she
married, the event being recorded in the Cawthorne Parish Register.
THOMAS FAWLEY & MARY FRETWELL. Octob’r the 23nd
Thomas Ffawley, is described as Yeoman, of Hollinhouse and High Hoyland, a
parish-town situated a mere 1½ miles from Cawthorne, and, in another
source, as Thomas Fawley of Hall House, yeoman. I have postulated 1681 as
the year of his birth from an entry, the only one for a Thomas in the
appropriate time-frame, in the Cawthorne Parish Register, but have no
confirmation that this is a correct assumption.
THO FAWLEY bap Decem the 1
In fact, we know virtually nothing about Mary, and not much more about her
husband Thomas, except that the Fawleys were well established in the
district. An earlier born Thomas was one of the Churchwardens who
attested, on July 9 1689, to the collection of funds for the “Just
Protestants” referred to earlier. The Fawleys were also connected to the
Webster family, and thus to the Halliley family, who, in turn, were
one-time owners of Bickerton Hall near Bilton. Subsequently, Mary’s
brothers Francis and John, were the owners of the Hall.
George Webster was the administrator of the estate of John Fawley of
Cawthorne. John Fawley had married Ellen Webster, George's sister in about
1668. George's nephew, Thomas Webster of Featherstone, later of Bickerton,
signed the bond as well as George, presumably after the death of John
Fawley. Thomas Webster’s wife Elizabeth, née Halliley, probably inherited
the Bickerton Estate around 1700 from her father, Robert or Thomas
Halliley.
Thomas Fawley was, in all probability the son of the above mentioned John
Fawley of Barnby in Cawthorne and Ellen née Webster. If this was so, then
Thomas Webster and Thomas Fawley were cousins, and Ellen was Mary’s
mother-in-law. It is interesting to note that the continuing
Webster-Fawley-Fretwell links continued through to at least the next
generation. Anthony Webster son of Thomas and Elizabeth, and Mary’s nephew
by marriage, was appointed as Executor of her brother John’s Will.
Definitely a case of ‘keeping things in the family’.
According to her brother Francis’s will, drawn up in 1727, by which
bequests were made inter alia to the children of his sisters Mary,
Grace, and Ann, there was at least one child, and maybe more, from the
marriage of Mary and Thomas Fawley, which, if they lived together until
Mary’s death, lasted almost 30 years. But there is nothing in the family
papers to indicate who the offspring may have been. But, given the date of
the above-mentioned will, it is reasonable to assume that there were some
children of Mary and Thomas still living in 1727. Mary died in 1736 aged
47, and her burial was recorded in the Cawthorne Parish Register.
MARY wife of THOMAS FAWLEY (from Hoyland) June 24th
If we accept the 1681 birth date, widower Thomas would have been in his
mid-50s when he married for a second time, to Marg(a)ret Hirst of
Cawthorne, in 1737/38.
THOMAS FAWLEY of High Hoyland and MARGRET HIRST of Cawthorne by Banns
publish’d certify’d by Mr Burton Cur’t marry’d by me Tho: Cockshutt
Jan.31st
Francis Fretwell
The ‘hatched, matched and duly dispatched’ information for the second
child and first son of Johannes Fretwell and Ann Woodhead, Francis
Fretwell of Bickerton, in the County of the City of York, Gentleman, is :
baptised 24 October 1691, married in late 1718; buried on 26th January
1727/28. Here we have another Fretwell who was ‘going places’—and in every
sense, since Bickerton and Bilton are more than a stone’s throw away from
the Cawthorne district, lying some 30 miles north east as the crow flies.
Francis, by the age of 33 when his father died, was a ’man of substance’.
Confirmation, as we have seen, of Francis’s relatively comfortable
position is found in the terms of his father’s will. John Fretwell of
Cinder Hill, Cawthorne left to his son Francis one penny "as he was so
well provided for". As indeed he was, for not only did he inherit
Bickerton Hall, but five other properties one of which, in Messingham, he
acquired by marriage.
In late 1718, when Francis was 27, he married Elizabeth Huntington of West
Stockwith, Co. Notts., a widow who had lost her first husband four years
earlier. Dates for her birth and death are not known but the latter event
would have occurred after Francis’s death on 9 January 1727/28. It was
likely that the ceremony was held at Bilton as the marriage was
commemorated with a Marriage Tablet in the chancel near the south wall of
the Bilton. Unless there was a big disparity in age between herself and
her first husband, Elizabeth would have been some years older than
Francis.
William Huntington, the second son of John and Mary Huntington, died on 24
December 1714, aged 41 years and three days later was buried, at
Misterton. Some years after this, on 1 October 1722, his body was removed
to his own chapel at West Stockwith. The consecration of the new chapel
and the relocation of its patron’s remains is recorded by
James Fretwell (a scion of
another Fretwell family) who wrote in his diary :
“Sunday,
September 30th, 1722. - My brother John and sister Mary went to Stockwith,
to see the ceremony of the consecration of the new chappel, built there
pursuant to the will of the late Mr. William Huntington ship-wright, whose
body was removed from the parish church of Mysterton and laid in his own
chappel, the following day.”
The reason for this relocation is interesting. An inscription around the
basement of a marble effigy in the chapel reads :
Here lieth the body of William Huntington, late of this place, ship
carpenter, second son of John and Mary Huntington: who, by his last will
and testament after the death of his mother and the marriage or death of
his widow, gave seven hundred and forty pounds for ye building of ye
chappall and hospital round about it, and for ye support of a minister,
school-master, and ten poor ship carpenters' widows, and other charitys,
bequeathed all his lands in West Stockwith, Gunhouse and Misterton, for
ever. He dyed Decembr. the 24th, 1714, aged forty-one years. The executing
of his will was committed by ye founder to ye care of William Sampson,
junr., gent., Matthew Sampson, gent., Thomas Donekin, mercht., Henry Shaw,
gent. of Gainsborough.
Before their marriage Francis entered into a Bond, dated 18th October
1718, with William Sampson Jnr of Gainsborough County, Lincoln, Gentleman,
and Matthew Sampson, brother of the foregoing, in the sum of £2,000 that
he would leave his wife, if she survived him, £1,000, and all such goods
and chattels, as she was possessed of before her marriage with him.
After a no doubt comfortable, but, seemingly, childless marriage of just
less than 10 years, Elizabeth was once more a widow, with the death of
Francis in his mid-30s, a young age even for those days. His passing was
commemorated by a monumental inscription on the floor of the South Aisle
of St Helen’s Church:
Mr Francis Fretwell (37) of Bickerton Hall, died 8 Jan 1728
and from the Burial Certificate :
“Burials in the Parish of Bilton-in-Ainsty, in the County of York, in
the year one thousand seven hundred and twenty eight. Mr Francis
Fretwell of Bickerton was buried Jany 9th.”
Only two months before his death Francis drew up his will on 10 November
1727. Sole Executor was his brother John Fretwell, Gentleman, and the
Witnesses were William Carrick, William Carrick Jnr., and Richard Turner.
The will was proved on 26 January 1727/28. Not only was Francis true to
his bond, but he also left to Elizabeth all his lands in Messingham.
Apart from the bequests made to Elizabeth, Francis provided for other
members of his family. Among those to benefit were :
John and Francis Fretwell - brother and nephew, son of John
Mary, Grace and Ann - sisters, and wives respectively of Thomas
Fawley, George Walker, Stephen Arnold
Mary Fretwell - niece, daughter of John
Matthew Fretchwell - uncle
The beneficiaries also included the children of his sisters Mary, Grace,
and Ann, and his cousins Robert and Susannah - son and daughter of Robert,
and William and Ann — children of Matthew. And Francis did not forget the
loyalty and service of his servants, William Bell and Ann Clithers, who
were also provided for.
John Fretwell
John Fretwell of Bretton, and later of Bickerton Hall, in the parish of
St.Helen’s, Bilton, Co of York, Gentleman, was baptised according to the
Cawthorne Parish Register in October 1693.
JOHN son of JOHN FRETWELL bap Octob’r the 19th
He married Mary, about whom nothing is known at present, probably around
1723, at the relatively late age of around 30. John was another Fretwell
to move away from home territory, following his elder brother Francis to
Bickerton. Over a period of 9 years four children were born to John and
Mary.
Children of John Fretwell and Mary?
Name |
Born/Baptised |
Died/Buried |
Francis |
29 Mar
1724 |
Aft 1734 |
Mary |
5 May 1726 |
Aft 1734 |
John |
16 Jun
1729 |
13 May
1772 |
William |
2 Oct 1731 |
17 Jan
1732 |
Since his elder brother Francis died without issue, the ‘responsibility’
of the Fretwell lineage was passed to John Fretwell, a responsibility he
fulfilled, but only through his third child John, and possibly the only
son who survived to adulthood. Like his elder brother before him, John
died young — in his 40th year. He was buried at York on 28 December 1732,
in the graveyard of the parish church of St. Martin-cum-Gregory.
In the space of eleven months Mary had lost both her youngest child
William who was buried at Bilton on 17 January 1731/32, and her husband.
John had provided for them all in his will, which was witnessed by Martha
Stephenson and Richard Booth, and proved on 27 January 1732/33 by the
Executors, his wife, Mrs. Mary Fretwell, Mr. John Turner of Cowthorpe,
Anthony Webster of Bickerton, and Thomas Stephenson of York. But the
reality was that, and at the young age of twenty-nine, Mary was a widow
with three dependent children aged 8, 6 and 3.
Mary was fortunate to find a person willing to take on her and her young
brood. On 16 April 1734 she and Richard Dickinson, a widower of Marton
with Grafton, Co. York, were married in York Minister, as is substantiated
by an entry in the Marriage Bonds of the Dean and Chapter of York :
1734 April 16. Richd Dickinson, of Martin with Grafton, 33, widower,
yeoman, Mary Fretwell, of Bilton, 31, widow, in Cath or Bilton.
Further, an editorial note in the Yorkshire Archaeological and
Topographical Journal surmises:
"Probably Mary widow of John Fretwell, gent, of Bickerton, in par of
Bilton, who died in 1732, leaving 3 children, Francis, Mary and John
Fretwell, then minors”
From here we lose trace of Mary and, for a while, her children. It was
likely that she moved ten miles or so further north, to the Marton with
Grafton district.
Grace Fretwell
Grace, fourth child and second daughter of Johannes and Ann Woodhead was
baptised on 27 December 1695 at the Cawthorne Parish Church. Also recorded
in the Parish Register is her marriage, at age twenty, on 29 December 1715
to her first husband Robert Ant.
GRACE (?) dau of JOHN FRETWELL baptized December ye 27 day
ROBERT ANT (per B.T Farmer) & GRACE FRETWELL, Decemb’r the 29th
From the marriage entry we know that Robert was a farmer, but his
provenance and family background is unknown apart from a record that he
came from Silkstone. One line of enquiry is the records of Ants in
Mexborough, Yorks, which is some 20 or so miles to the east of Silkstone.
On 7 April 1663 a John Ant, son of Joseph was christened; two children of
a Robert Ant - Isabel and William - were also baptised at Mexborough on 25
February 1663/64 and 25 February 1665/66 respectively. If there is a
family connection it may be that either John or William was the father of
Robert, but, pending further research, this must remain speculative.
There is some confusion in deciphering the WEF notes regarding the
offspring of Grace and Robert. Were there two sons - named John Robert,
baptised at Silkstone on 19 January 1718/19 and Thomas Francis, baptised
at Silkstone on 10 January 1720/21? Or were there two sets of twins John
and Robert, and Thomas and Francis? It is unlikely that two sets of twins
would have gone unremarked, but a reference, in their grandfather’s John’s
will, dated 1724, records bequests to his grandsons - John, Robert and
Thomas. No mention of any Francis. Taking the will as a reasonably
reliable source, it may be that there were two sets of twins, and that
Francis had not survived. If this is correct, John and Robert, and Thomas
were living in 1724 and would have been 6 and 4 years old.
Children of Grace Fretwell and Robert Ant
Name |
Born/Baptised |
Died/Buried |
John |
2 Dec 1716 |
? |
Robert |
9 Jan
1718/9 |
? |
Thomas |
10 Jan
1720 |
? |
Francis |
10 Jan
1720/1 |
? |
Further delving, by Fred Hobson on my behalf, finds a baptism for a John,
son of Robert Ant, on 2 December 1716, at Darton (IGI). Darton is about 3
miles north west of Barnsley and 5 miles north of Stainborough. He did not
find any entry for a Thomas.
Robert died around 1720. At this time it was the custom, in order that any
dispute over a will could be more easily settled, for ecclesiastical
courts that proved wills to require that the executors should appoint
three or four local men to make a "true and perfect" inventory of the
personal estate of the deceased. I have not located a will for Robert Ant,
but I do have such an inventory of all his goods and chattels as declared
and witnessed on 18 October 1720, the value of which amounted to
£200-19-2. Click here
to see the full document, noting that. the original manuscript is
difficult to read and I have not been able to decipher some of the words.
This Inventory was signed off just shortly after Grace married a second
time, again to a man from Silkstone:
Grace Ant, widow, married by banns : 14th Sep 1721, George
Walker of Silkstone, yeoman
That the marriage was by Banns rather than by Licence implies that, after
her first marriage, Grace had lived in Silkstone. Like husband number one,
George is a shadowy figure. Apart from the joint responsibility of caring
for Grace’s brood of three (?) sons, George and Grace proceeded to produce
six children of their own, who were born in rapid succession over the next
twelve years:
Children of Grace Fretwell and George
Walker
Name |
Born/Baptised |
Died/Buried |
Ann |
15 Feb
1722 |
? |
William |
14 Feb
1724 |
22 Oct
1733 |
Mary |
28 Apr
1727 |
12 Jul
1752 |
Martha |
28 Mar
1729 |
? |
George |
15 Dec
1731 |
20 Jun
1732 |
Thomas |
30 May
1733 |
? |
William |
? |
9 Apr 1755 |
of whom I only have a record of the (early) deaths of two - William and
George, which, assuming the others survived to adulthood, still left a
demanding blended family of at least seven children.
This assumption would seem well founded as, once again thanks to Fred
Hobson, there are records for the burial in 1752 of Mary, at age 25 and of
a second William in 1755, both of Stainbrough. When and where this William
was born is not known. Until Fred's assistance I had no record of the
death dates of Grace and George, but it is now certain that George was
buried on 15 December 1757 and Grace, outliving him by 12 years, on 15
January 1769. They were both recorded as being from Stainbrough. Grace
would have been 74 years old.
Ann Fretwell (d. of John)
Ann, the youngest child of John and Ann, was baptised on 2 March 1699/70
at Cawthorne, just three months before her sister Grace’s second wedding.
ANN filia JOHN FRETWELL bap March 2 day
Ann herself was married at the All Saints Church in Silkstone, by banns on
19 June 1721 to Stephen Arnold of Cawthorne, suggesting that, like Grace,
she too resided in Silkstone. At the time of the marriage Ann was 21 years
old. Stephen combined his rôle as Yeoman with that of Gardener, and it is
likely that he was employed to work on the Spencer-Stanhope holdings. A
later list of Estate positions filled by villages included 4 Gardeners and
6 Garden Labourers. RTF and WEF had not been able to add much on Stephen.
From the Cawthorne records we find that the first recorded baptism of an
Arnald [sic] took place in 1687, of an Arnoll [sic] in 1691, and of an
Arnold in 1713, so they had lived in the village for some time.
The family records indicate that Ann and Stephen had at least one child —
a son named Francis — whose date of birth has yet to be established, and
for whom there is no entry in the Cawthorne Parish Register. The query as
to whether Grace also had a son Francis has already been noted. Of
significance, perhaps, is that there is no mention of any grandchild by
the name Francis in the Will of Grace’s and Ann’s father. Possible
deductions are that one or both children by the name Francis had died
before 1724, when the Will was drawn up, or that if Ann and Stephen did
have a son Francis, he was born after 1724. A further possibility is that
John, for whatever reason, failed to make a bequest to a Francis
grandchild.
Children of Ann Fretwell and Stephen Arnold
Name |
Born/Baptised |
Died/Buried |
Francis |
Aft 1722 |
? |
It is likely that Ann and Stephen lived their married life at, or close to
Cawthorne, as their burials are recorded in the Parish Register. Ann lived
to see 55, being buried in March 1756/66 and Stephen survived her by just
over 10 years, and was buried in April 1766.
ANNE wife of Stephen Arnold Mar 4
STEPHEN ARNOLD Gardener Apr’l 5th
Joshua Fretwell
Joshua was the only son of Joshua Fretwell and Marg(a)ret of Hoyland and
was born in 1686 at Hoyland Swaine, the hamlet to which his father had
moved earlier. Joshua Jnr was a clothmaker by trade.
At the young age of about 20 Joshua married for the first time — to Easter
(Easther?) Denton. The Silkstone Parish Register notes that this took
place on 4 August 1706 and that both Joshua and Easter were of the parish
of Silkstone. They were married for eleven and a half years, and seemingly
remained at Hoyland Swaine, before Easter was buried on 30 January 1718/19
as also recorded in the Silkstone Parish Register.
Easter, wife of Joshua Frettwell of Hoylandswaine buried.
In that time two sons were born to the couple, who would have been 12 and
10 respectively when their mother died.
Children of Joshua Fretwell and Easter
(Easther) Denton
Name |
Born/Baptised |
Died/Buried |
William |
20 Jun
1707 |
aft 1741 |
John |
Oct 1709 |
aft 1733 |
Two years after Easter’s death Joshua married for a second time in 1722.
His new bride was Ann Tayle(o)r of Cawthorne and the ceremony was recorded
as follows:
JOSHUA FRETWELL of Hoylandswain in ye Parish of Silkston and ANN
TAYLOR (per B.T Ann Tayler) of Cawthorne marry’d by me Tho. Cockshutt by
vertue of Licence granted by Mr Clarkson Vicar of Silkston May 1st.
The wedding took place in Cawthorne, which was Ann’s parish, so it is not
clear why a Licence would be required. Their first child, Joshua, was born
just over nine months to the day after their marriage.
Children of Joshua Fretwell and Ann
Tayle(o)r
Name |
Born/Baptised |
Died/Buried |
Joshua |
11 Feb
1723 |
17 Nov
1898 |
Joshua was now 36, but no details are yet confirmed as to Ann’s date of
birth, although some speculative propositions can be made from the
Cawthorne Parish Registers. If Ann was close in age to Joshua she may be
the Ann who was baptised on 2 February 1683/84. This would tie in with a
record in the Silkstone Graveyard Book, which has:
Ann Fretwell his [Joshua Fretwell] wife died 8 April 1758 aged 75
which would put her birth year at 1683. But the same source has a record
of burial for Joshua:
Joshua Fretwell of Hoylandswaine died 21 April 1751 aged 79
which would put his birth year at 1672, which conflicts with the birth
year of 1686 in WEF's notes. If Ann was considerably younger than her
husband she may be the Ann, daughter of another Joshua, who was baptised
on 3 June 1703. And if Joshua’s second wife is identified as the latter
Ann, she would have been around 20 on marriage, and her father would have
been Joshua Tayle(o)r, described synonymously as both feltmonger and
hatter, who was buried at Cawthorne on 4 March 1759, and who was
predeceased by his wife Ann, who was also buried at Cawthorne on 12 March
1722/23.
Their son Joshua was born in 1723. His step-brothers would have been aged
16 and 14 — quite a disparity in age groups. But the older boys would, by
this time, be either working with their father, or perhaps not even living
at home if they had found employment or were apprenticed elsewhere.
William Fretwell
Apart from the age differentials between siblings which could result from
second marriages, cross-generational disparities occurred quite frequently
as a consequence of the tendency to produce large families over a long
period of time. Thus we have William, son of Matthew and Mary Fretchwell,
being born one year before his cousin Joshua’s son, also named William.
The fact, also, that William was in his early thirties when he married
would have contributed to this situation.
Of William very little is known. He was baptised in Cawthorne on Boxing
Day, 1706.
WILLIAM son of MATTHEW FRETWELL Dec. ye 26th
He rated a mention in his Uncle Johannes’s will, at which time he would
have been about 18 years old. It is likely that he remained in Cawthorne
where his occupation was Husbandman.
The identity of his wife (assuming he was married) and the mother of his
child Mary, born in 1731, is also a mystery, but as the marriage is not
recorded in the Parish Register she possibly came from another parish,
where the wedding may have taken place. We do not know, either, the dates
of the couple’s deaths, of which the most that can be assumed was that
this sad event would have taken place after the birth of his daughter
Mary.
Children of William Fretwell and ?
Name |
Born/Baptised |
Died/Buried |
Mary |
21 Apr
1731 |
? |
In the realms again of speculation — could the Mary, tentatively ascribed
as the wife and widow of Matthew, William’s father (see under Second
Generation), have been, in fact, the mystery wife of William, and for whom
their daughter was named? If so, Matthew would have died prior to 1742,
the date of the ‘spare’ Mary’s burial.
WEF and RTF did very little research on the Fretwells of Hoyland Swaine,
but research is now ongoing.
Ann Fretwell (d. of Matthew)
Ann, daughter of of Matthew Fret(ch)well and Mary Aude, was three and a
bit years junior to her brother. She was baptised a Cawthorne in March
1710/11.
ANN (Anna in B.T) dau of MATTHEW FRETWELL Mar. ye 3rd
Just short of her 25th birthday, in 1735/36, she married Joseph Coldwell,
also of Cawthorne.
JOSEPH COLDWELL and ANN FRETWELL both of Cawthorne publish’d and
marry’d by me Tho: Cockshutt Febr. 19th
Like the Fretwells, the Coldwells
could be considered a ‘core’ Cawthorne family. It was also an extended
family, with many references to the name (and variant spellings) in the
Registers. Joseph was the fourth child, and second son of John and
Elizabeth(?) Coldwell, and was baptised in 1708.
JOSEPH son of JOHN COLDWELL June the 27th
Apart from Joseph, John and Elizabeth had four other children — 2
daughters and 2 sons. John’s trade was that of glazier, and his son Joseph
carried on this tradition, combined with his work as Farmer.
The Coldwells also took an interest in parish affairs, and a Joseph
Coldwell is listed as Church Warden 2 for the years 1751, 1776-1778, under
the heading Signatories to Bishop’s Transcripts, which was one of the
duties of Church Warden. Two Josephs in the Registers would fit the time
frame for these appointments, and I would think that Ann Fretwell's Joseph
fulfilled the duties in 1751, and their son, Joseph, carried on the
tradition over the three years 1776-1778.
From my reading of the Cawthorne Registers I have tentatively given Joseph
Snr and Ann three sons and one daughter of whom we know that one, John,
died in infancy, surviving only one week.
Children of Ann Fretwell and Joseph
Coldwell
Name |
Born/Baptised |
Died/Buried |
John |
5 Apr 1737 |
12 Apr
1737 |
Joseph |
27 Feb
1738 |
? |
Susannah |
23 Nov
1740 |
? |
Robert |
21 Jun
1743 |
12 Dec
1785 |
Ann died and was buried in May 1746, leaving Joseph to care for the
three(?) remaining children, whose ages ranged from 9 down to nearly 3.
ANN (per B.T Anne) wife of JOSEPH COLDWELL (no month shown) ye 11th
An entry in the Register for 1747 finds Joseph marrying for a second time,
his new wife being one Anne Dixon, also from Cawthorne.
JOSEPH COLDWELL and ANNE DIXON both of this Parish by Banns per me J.
Radclyffe (per B.T Nov 11)
Within five years, three more children were added to Joseph’s family, one
son and two daughters.
Children of Joseph Coldwell and Anne Dixon
Name |
Born/Baptised |
Died/Buried |
Hugh |
2 Sep 1749 |
9 Oct 1794 |
Elizabeth |
5 May 1751 |
? |
Sarah |
31 Dec
1752 |
? |
There is some difficulty with establishing the dates for Joseph and Anne’s
deaths, and the Parish Register offers some possible clues, but no firm
conclusions. The burials of two Anns are registered for May 1792 and
October 1793 respectively.
ANN COLDWELL Widow (no month shown) 10th (per B.T Apl 19)
ANN COLDWELL (no month shown) 21
Similarly there is a reference to the burial of a Joseph for January 1790
JOSEPH COLDWELL (no month shown) 10th
At this stage, taking account of the all the Coldwell families entries in
the Register, and definitely pending further research, it might be
acceptable to posit that the Joseph, husband first to Ann Fretwell and
then to Anne Dixon lived to the age of nearly 82, and was buried early in
the new year of 1790. Equally tentative, and taking the first cited Ann,
his widow, and second wife, survived him by almost two years. |