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For space considerations, the
version of James Fretwell's Diary that follows does not include the
editorial footnote annotations inserted in the original transcript at
some later stage. Nor, due to the frequency of references to James's
immediate family, are these relatives included in the cross referenced
table of people cited in the Diary.
I would welcome any comments or
queries relating to the Diary, and, of course any information that
might add to what is currently known about the Fretwells and
Woodhouses. I am only an email
away!

Abbey
1 |
Aldred
1 |
Atkinson
1 2
3 4
5 6 |
Bailey
1 |
Bateman
1 |
Bayley
1 |
Beard
1
| Berry
1 |
Bolton
1 |
Bower
1 2
3 4 |
Bowzer
1
| Brewsters
1 |
Brummet/
Broomhead
1 |
Burghwallis
1 |
Burleigh
1 |
Clegg
1 |
Cleworth
1 2
3 4
5 6 |
Cooke
1 |
Cope
1 |
Coppock
1 |
Crawshaw
1 |
Creswick
1 |
Crew(e)
1 |
Deacon
1 |
Dearlove
1 |
Doughty
1 2 |
Dowson
1 2
3 |
Drake
1 |
Dujon
1 2 |
Eyre
1 2 3 4 5 6 |
Fielding
1 |
Foster
1 2 |
Fothergil
1 |
Foulston
1 |
Fountayne
1 |
France
1 |
Frank
1 2 |
Godfrey
1 2 3 |
Godwin
1 |
Goldsmith
1 |
Gregory
1 |
Harvey
1
| Herrot(t)
1 2
3 4 |
Hewardine
1 |
Holgate
1 |
Holmes
1 2
3 |
Howlegate
1 |
Hudson
1 |
Hungtington
1 |
Husband
1 2
3 |
Hydes
1 |
Ibbotson
1 |
Jarret
1 |
Jenkinson
1 |
Jennings
1 |
Johnson
1 2 |
Kettle
1 |
Kingstone
1 |
Kiplin
1 2
3 |
Langley
1 |
Lapidge
1 |
Lathom
1 |
Lindey(ley)
1 |
Lisle
1 |
Lucas
1 |
Mailin
1 |
Malin
1 2 |
Marsden
1 |
Mawhood
1 |
Mead
1 |
Mellish
1 |
Middlebrook
1 |
Middleton
1 2
3 |
Mitchel
1 |
Moore
1 2
3 4
5 6
7 |
Moorehouse
1 |
Morrise
1 |
Murfin
1 |
Northall
1 |
Oates
1
| Oughtibridge
1 |
Ounsworth
1 2 |
Oxley
1 |
Perkin
1 |
Perkins
1 |
Pierson
1 |
Pindar
1 |
Pinder
1 |
Portington
1 |
Pullein
1 |
Purslove
1 |
Rainor
1 2
3 |
Reed
1 |
Robinson
1 2
3 4 |
Rodwell
1 2 |
Rowley
1 |
Sandford
1 |
Schofield
1 2 |
Shaw
1 |
Shillito
1 2 |
Silvester
1 |
Skipton
1 |
Smith
1 2
3 |
Stanniforth
1 |
Stanton
1 2 |
Thorp
1 |
Tims
1 |
Wadsworth
1 |
Walker
1 2 |
Ward
1 2 |
Webster
1 |
Wharam
1 |
Wheatley
1 |
Wilcocks
1 2
3 4
5 |
Wilcox
1 2 |
Wintringham
1 2 3
4 |
Withers
1 |
Wood
1 |
Woodcock
1 |
Woodfin
1 |
Woods
1 |
Wright
1 |
Yarborough
1 |
Yarburgh
1 2 |
Young
1 |
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One generation passeth away, and another generation cometh:
but the earth abideth forever.
Eccles. i. 4.
The thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that
which is done is that which shall be done; and there is no new
thing under the sun.
Eccles. i. 9.
There is no remembrance of former things; neither will there
be any remembrance of things that are to come with those that
shall come after.
Eccles. i. 11.
For who can tell a man what shall be after him under the sun?
Eccles. vi. 12.
Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might; for
there is no work, nor device, nor knowledge, nor wisdom, in the
grave, whither thou goest.
Eccles. ix. 10.

TO POSTERITY
The knowledge of letters is certainly one of the
greatest blessings that ever God bestowed on mortals; their uses are
innumerable; they ease our memories, by committing to writing what
would otherwise have been burdensome to retain, or else have been
totally forgot. By this means our predecessors have transmitted to us
their various exploits and transactions, and we hand them done,
together with our own, to future generations. Thus also we have
accounts of what is done in the remotest parts of the world; and they
again the same from us. Thus excellent men by their writings, in all
faculties and sciences, enjoy a sort of immortality upon earth, by
having their memories honoured by succeeding generations who never saw
their faces in the flesh.
But the greatest blessing of all that has by this
means been transmitted to us, is in the revelation of God’s will to
us in the Ho1y Scriptures; wherein is contained all that we need to
know, or to do, in this life, in order to be for ever happy in the
next. For had not the Apostles committed their doctrine to writing,
how short and uncertain an account should we have had of it; then
there would have been large room for introducing oral traditions at
pleasure.
And we, who live in these latter ages, have still
greater reason of thankfulness to Almighty God for the great
improvement of the use of letters, by the wonderful and almost
miraculous invention of the art of printing; which is now come to so
great perfection, and has already done so much good in the world. Not
that I am insensible, on the other hand, of the mischief done by
immoral, atheistical, and heretical books, &c. But I hope the many
great benefits of the press, in promoting of all kind of usefull
knowledge, both human and divine, do abundantly outweigh its
inconveniences; especially if we consider one of the first and
greatest services it did in promoting that great and glorious work of
the Reformation.
Several good men have been careful to publish to
the world an account of the lives of such men who have been eminently
serviceable in their day and station, and whose lives have been
exemplarily pious; and I doubt not but much good has been done by this
means, and that many others have been thereby provoked to follow ‘em
in love and good works.
I think ‘tis something strange that now, since
writing has been for some ages so common, so few should have any
tollerable knowledge of their ancestors; their knowledge seldom
extending beyond their grandfathers. I am of opinion ‘twould have
been acceptable to their posterity to have had an account of the
families from which they were descended, altho’ they were not any
ways illustrious, but meerly to satisfie their curiosity in knowing
through whose loyns they have descended, and into what families they
have been planted and transplanted; and a few sheets of paper would
have satisfied us, as to the birth, education, profession, alliances,
places of abode, and deaths, of our forefathers, for several
generations. And tho’ the account they had given us of these things
had been very concise, yet I'm perswaded we might in several instances
have observed a wonderful and beautiful variety of Divine Providence
in overruling and disposing of their several personal and family
circumstances and concerns.
My design, therefore, in these papers, is to give a
brief account of the present circumstances of myself and my father’s
house, which is designed as a bequest to posterity; which, I need not
tell you, is at your own disposal, and now they are come to your
hands, and will be of more service to me. But if you think fit to
preserve them, and thereto annex an account of such things worthy of
note as shall happen to you, in the day of your pilgrimage, is what I
could rather wish, and had some hopes of in my first undertaking; and
by this means succeeding generations will have a more tollerable
account of what happened to or was done by us their predecessors, than
‘tis possible for ‘em to have by vulgar traditional reports, which
many young persons have take pleasure in hearing from very antient
people; and a poor slight paper, if preserved with care, will soon be
more ancient than the oldest man of the age; for all care in the
world, and all the arts in the world, cannot preserve human nature to
equal the duration of the thinnest glass or finest paper preserved
with the like care.
My present purpose is to carry on this work
according to the abilities with which God has blessed me, so long as
it shall please God to enable me; and I heartily desire that the next
relation of mine who shall put his pen to this work (if ever any do),
may be better qualified for carrying it on than I have been, and for
making such reflections and observations as may be usefull to those
who shall come after him; and may his successor as far exceed him in
all wisdom and spiritual understanding; so shall this poor piece, as
it passes from hand to hand, be the more usefull, and consequently the
more valuable.
I shall not be so exact in methodizing every part
as if it were designed for public view; and therefore after I have
brought it down to the close of the year 1718, shall by help of my
diary, which I then begun, enter everything according to the order of
time in which it happened.
I am conscious of my own defects, and therefore
what you find here I desire you will not communicate to any except
near and dear friends, who may perhaps bear with me, not looking so
much at the poor performance, as at my sincere endeavours of pleasing
and profiting posterity, which is and shall be the sincere desire of
your loving relation, and affectionate friend, whilst known by the
name of
JAMES FRETWELL
Jan. 12th I738-9

A FAMILY HISTORY
Chapter I
There has but little come to my
knowledge concerning my ancestors; what I have heard or known I will
faith fully relate.
My great-grandfather, who is the
first of whom I have heard any mention made, was called Richard
Fretwell an honest plain man, and (if I mistake not) he was by
profession a carpenter, living at Maltbey. He had two sons, called
James and William, but whether any more children I know not.
My grandfather was called James. He
was a plain, honest, good man, well beloved by his acquaintance,
educated a carpenter; but his chief business was buying and selling
timber. He lived at Maltbey. His wife was of an antient family called Beard. Her name was Mary; she
was a good woman, and a prudent wife. She had many children, but
several of them died young, tho’ not in infancy. One I remember,
called John, who died February 18th 1708-9 in the 26th
year of his age. There was another, called William, who (I find) dyed
the 23rd of Sept. 1700, and in the 22nd year of
his age. I have heard that my grandmother mourned very much for his
death, which, ‘twas thought, was a means of hastening her own, which
happened the first day of November following. There was more of my
grandfather’s children who dyed young, of whom I have no account.
My grandfather survived my
grandmother many years; he continued at Maltbey with his youngest son
called Richard; but, after his daughter Mary was left a widow, I think
she prevailed with him to go to live with her. He had left of all
business for many years, and lived very privately, spending his time
very innocently, and great part of it in making preparation for his
great change, which happened on Thursday, Sept 4th 1718,
betwixt 5 and 6 a clock in the morning. He was taken ill but the
morning before; but tho’ he was taken out of this world after a very
short summons, I hope he was not unprepared for it. Hereby we may see
how necessary ‘tis to be always ready, for we know not at what hour
our Lord will come to any of us in particular by death.
His eldest daughter, called
Elizabeth, was married to one John Bower, of Wickersley, a very honest man, and by
trade a carpenter, very ingenious in his profession. By him she had
two sons and one daughter; the eldest son, called John, is living; has
a wife and several children, living at Wickersley, and practicing his
father’s business, in which he is eminent, and has a fair character.
His sister, called Sarah, was a pretty young woman; she dyed many
years ago at the Rev. Mr. Holmes’s
at Hatfield. His brother was called Benjamin. He was bound (I think)
apprentice to cousin Stephen Husband,
of Tickhill, who was a tanner. He dyed about February 1718-9.
His younger daughter, called Mary,
was born Nov. 28th, 1676, and baptised the 26th
of Dec. 1676. She was married (I think) when about 19 years of age, to
one John Wasteneys, a relation, and who had been brought up with my
grandfather: a very honest man but destroyed his constitution by his
intemperance. He was not an unkind husband, but I think my aunt’s
meek and pacifick temper contributed not a little toward it, for he
was of a passionate, hot temper. They lived together about 20 years,
and had several children, of whom more hereafter. Only I shall add
here, because I shall not meet with it in my Diary, that they buried a
daughter called Sarah, many years before the death of my uncle, and
when I was at Stainton school. I forgot also to mention that they
lived at Maltbey.
His youngest son, called Richard,
was born February 26th, 1684; he also lives at Maltbey. He
married Ruth, the daughter of Mr. Matthew Purslove, late of the Grange, near Maltbey, by
whom he has several children. He is a sober, good man, and keeps an
orderly family, training up his children in the fear of the Lord. He
lives upon a, small estate of his own there, pleasantly and
healthfully situated; his chief business is buying and selling horses,
in which he is very skilful and successful; and which, notwithstanding
the general ill-repute that business lies under, he performs with an
unblemished character. And, indeed, I think he is as cautious of his
words as any man I ever knew; so that I doubt not but his word,
amongst such as know him, will go farther and have more credit than an
hundred oaths of some others will do; and then of what service are
they? ‘I have often thought that God hath in great wisdom hid from
men of false and dishonest minds the wonderful advantages of truth and
integrity, to the prosperity even of our worldly affairs; these men
are so blinded by their covetousnesss and ambition, that they cannot
look beyond a present advantage, nor forbear to seize upon it, tho’
by ways never so indirect: they cannot see so far as to the remote
consequences of a steady integrity, and the vast benefit and
advantages which it will bring a man at last. Were but this sort of
men wise and clear-sighted enough to discern this they would be honest
out of very knavery, not out of any love to honesty and virtue, but
with a crafty design to promote and advance more effectually their own
interests; and therefore the justice of the Divine Providence hath hid
this truest point of wisdom from their eyes, that bad men might not be
upon equal terms with the just and upright, and serve their own wicked
designs by honest and lawful means.’ (Thus far the great Bishop
Tillotson, in his sermon upon John i. 47, being the last he preached;
which was the 29th of July 1694).
My father, who is called James, was
his father’s eldest son (tho’ I speak of him last). He was born at
Maltbey, but he is not certain as to the time: he was about two years
younger than his sister Elizabeth, and that he was 64 years of age
about the middle of November last, which was anno 1738; and, if so, he
was born in the year 1674, but I am told the church register of so
many years standing is lost, so that I know not how I can come at the
knowledge of his age. He had his education at Laughton-le-Morthen,
under the celebrated Mr. Brummet
(or rather, as I suppose, his name might be Broomhead. After he had
learn’d so far as my grandfather thought was needful, he put him to
his own business. How long he tarried with him I know not, but after
some time he came to his uncle William Fretwell, of whom I made
mention chap. 1st, and continued with him as long as he lived; and has
since resided all his time in the same village.
William Fretwell, brother to my
grandfather, married a widdow in this little village of Thorp-in-Balne;
her name was Jennings. I
think he had only one child by her, which was a boy, and dyed young.
He bought the ground where my father built an house in the year 1696,
in which he has spent the greatest part of his time. He dyed before
his wife (viz. in the year 1695). I think my grandfather was
administrator, but he let his sister-in-law do (in great measure) what
she pleased for he was of a very easy good temper, and always expected
that she would leave what she had to him or his family, at her death;
but herein he was mistaken, for she married again to one Mr. William Rodwell, a flattering,
dissembling old fellow, who (I suppose) made his fortune by marrying
of many wives. He was a man of great policy, and much feared by his
neighbours. He outlived her many years, and, I think, married another,
which lived with him but a few weeks. His only son (now living) is
vicar of Arksey.
When his wife (who was my father’s
aunt) lay on her death-bed, my mother being with her, she said, ‘Cousin,
I have a design to leave my godson something’; and thereupon,
calling her husband, bid him to fetch her such a bond; he returns,
pretending he could not find it; whereat she was angry, saying he knew
where to find anything she had (or words to that effect); so the old
fox going again brought it to her, which she delivered to my mother,
saying, ‘Here cousin, take this, and let it be given to my godson’
(meaning myself). My mother brought it home, but, upon showing it to
my father, he perceived a flaw in it; how it was I know not, but it
was not made according to his wife’s expectation; perhaps it might
be of his own drawing, for he was often employed about such things;
and she having so good an opinion of him, and marrying him in such
hast, I’m the rather inclined to believe it was so. However, the
next day (I think) my mother visited the old woman again, and told her
of the mistake. ‘Well,’ said she, ‘if it is not right, it shall
be made right; but, however (continued she), you have an honest man
upon your hands to deal with, and never fear but he will do you
justice;’ and in a short time after she dyed. But the honest man
never would pay it, nor one farthing towards it; so I lost the only
legacy I ever had bequeathed me. He outlived his wife several years,
and was a very indifferent neighbour to my father, who was then but
young, and just entering upon the world. He died in the Levels, where
he had lived some years with his son William (a man of good character,
and well beloved), about the beginning of January 1718-9. I did not
hear that there was so great lamentation for him as was for his
predecessor William Fretwell, for whom (as we heard) was the greatest
cry that ever was remembered to have gone up Stableyard, for he was
universally beloved, and especially by his workmen, of whom he had
many, and to whom he was a kind master. But to return to my subject;
if the attendants and spectators were not over come with too much
sorrow, the preacher was not to be blamed for putting them in mind of
their loss of so good a man; for he was thought to launch out too much
by far in his commendation, is if he had been the Phoenix of the age.
We heard my father often speak of it as a piece of bare-faced flattery
as he never heard the like. The preacher was Mr. Dujon, of Doncaster, who preached his funeral
sermon the same day be was buried at Thorn. This old man had had four
wives (if not more), but was buried with none of them.
Upon the death of his uncle, my
father fell into his business of dealing in timber, which he has ever
since followed (but not so largely of late years as what he did
formerly); and when he had got his house built, thought ‘twas proper
to look out for a house-keeper, and an excellent one he got, one who
took delight in keeping at home. Her name was Mary; she was the second
daughter of John Woodhouse, late of Norton; but before I speak any
more of her, will give a brief account of some of her ancestors.
Chapter II
Some Account of my Mother’s Family
Her father was of an antient family
at Norton, in the parish of Campsul. He was the son of William, the
son of Roger Woodhouse, of Norton; his name was John. I’ve been told
that he had some relations at Barmby Dun, called Brewsters, with whom he was
some time when a boy, and that he went to Sandal school, which I think
was in the time of the civil wars. He lived at Norton when grown up,
and married Hannah, the daughter of . . Doughty, of Foster Houses, with whom he had a
handsome fortune, besides several good benefactions, especially by the
death of her uncle, William Doughty, who died in York Castle. He was
sent there upon account of his nonconformity, he being one of the
people called quakers. He lived on Balne Moorside, and was accounted
very rich; but, upon embracing Quakerism, grew very whimsical, to the
no small loss (I’m perswaded) of his family. I think he made him his
sole heir, tho’ he had nephews of his own, because he attended him
so constantly, and especially in that busy time of harvest. He left
him also all his household goods, which were considerable, but now out
of fashion; and therefore I’ve been told that Mrs. Moore (of whom more afterward)
sold a horse-load of brass at one time, besides smaller matters, out
of the house. Indeed, it was deck’d like a brazier’s shop; I think
I never see the like in any countryman’s house. She sold several
beds, &c., which her predecessor, my grandfather’s second wife,
would not dispose of to any, no not to her own child (I believe), but
rested her old bones upon three feather beds at the same time, as I’ve
been told. He was buried (as I've heard) in a garden nigh the castle.
The following story I had from an
old man at Norton, called George Middleton, and can say nothing in its
confirmation, but leave it to the prudence of the reader to believe or
reject as to him shall seem good.
Upon this old man being taken
prisoner, they told him he must prepare to go to York, which he did;
but desired they would favour him so far as to let him go through
Womersley, which was something out of their way. However, they
condescended to let him go thither: so being come thither, he called
of several poor men who were indebted to him, and gave them in their
securities; ‘for,’ said he, ‘there shall nobody trouble you when
I am gone.’
My grandmother bore her husband
three daughters, but dyed whilst they were very young. She was a very
good woman, and her death an inestimable loss to the family.
Hannah, who was the eldest, was born
on Sunday, June ye2nd 1672, and baptized the 28th
of the same month. Mary (who was my dear mother) was born on Tuesday,
the 30th day of March, and baptized on Saturday, the 3rd
day of April 1675. Elizabeth (the youngest daughter) was born on
Friday, the 14th of December 1677, and baptized on
Thursday, the 3rd day of January following. These were all
the children he had by his former wife. She dyed leaving them young.
Their father was very indulgent over
them, he being a sober, pious man and when after he had thoughts of a
second marriage, was very solicitous for his children. I suppose he
was in a way of concluding a marriage with one whom he after took his
leave off, upon account of some words she let drop concerning his
children.
Afterwards he made his addresses to
one Sarah Wilcox, of
Worsborough, nigh Barnsley. She had lived many years at London with a
brother who (as I think) was a salesman, and had acquired a
considerable fortune, and who, for her good service, upon her marrying
my grandfather, believe he gave her a portion. But before they were
married, she came over to his house to see house tidings (as our
country phrase is), and, upon his asking how she liked all things, she
was so wise for herself as to answer, ‘very wel1.’ ‘But,’
continued he, ‘How do you like my children?’ ‘Oh, very well,’
said she; ‘the best of anything that I see in your house,’ or
words to that effect. But alas! she proved a very indifferent mother;
to the no small grief of their good father, and their very great loss.
By this wife he had only one child, a son called John, who was born on
Saturday the 24th of April, and baptized on Sunday the
second day of May 1686.
One thing relating to the birth of
this child, which shews something of the mother’s temper, may not
perhaps be improper to relate. When she found she was drawing near her
perilous hour, she sent for an old woman who was a midwife in the
neighbourhood, who she had pitched upon. She came and attended her
several days, but found the case too difficult for her slender skill
to surmount. The wife had a very bad time (we may believe); my
grandfather desired she would let him go for some other, who might be
more skilful, but she absolutely denyed, although she lay in such
misery; however, at length he went (or sent) for another midwife,
without her knowledge (I believe); if I mistake not, her name was Mrs.
Dearlove. When she was
come, the wife stood firmly in her obstinacy. ‘Well, Mrs.,’ said
the midwife (last come), ‘I shall not lye a hand upon you without
your consent., and that you will dismiss your midwife if she cannot
finish her work.’ Alas! The old woman was at her short wits end, the
signals of the wive's delivery went off, and nothing but ill symptoms
appeared, so that at last they prevailed with this obstinate woman to
let Mrs. Dearlove (if that was her name) take her case under hand. She
administered something to her which again brought her throws upon her,
and she was safely delivered in a little time, to the no small
pleasure (we may suppose) of my grandfather, who had now a son to
succeed him. But happy is it for poor mortals that they have not the
foresight of what is at such a distance, for ‘twould often damp the
rejoycing that is made at the birth of an heir of rank and figure, as
well as of meaner persons; for this poor child was banished, as it
were, by his mother; met with great troubles towards the very end of
his days, and spent his whole estate. There were formerly (I’ve been
told) many families of Woodhouses in Norton, who had estates there, as
may yet appear by almost any old writings relating to the lands in the
fields there, wherein they are frequently mentioned as abutting,
abounding, &c., upon them; but now not one left in the whole town.
How long my grandfather lived after
his son’s birth I know not. His will, I find, bears date the 12th
day of Septr. 1690, and I think it was made in his last illness,
therefore concludes he dyed soon after. He was a prudent, good man,
much respected by those who knew him; and I find his memory is
respected by some old persons who remember him, especially by the
poor, for his kindness to them, and his constant employing of them. He
had a handsome estate, but did not covet to enlarge it, for he was
frequently building, or enclosing ground, or something which kept him
employ'd, and many others also, and took off his money as it came in;
so that his brother Robert once told him, ‘when these lasses’
(meaning his 3 daughters) ‘want their fortunes, they may seek ‘em
in stone walls and draw-wells.’
By which last expression I suppose
he might glance at his digging of a well in a close which he had newly
inclosed, called Newhill close, lying west of Norton West Field. This
was a chargeable undertaking; I’ve several times heard this story of
it: that he agreed with a man for sinking this well, the sum agreed
for I know not, but to be sure ‘twas a considerable sum. The man
laboured hard at it for some time, till he despaired of ever
accomplishing it; for ‘tis upon an high hill, and he had a quarry of
hard lime stones to work thorough; therefore he was packing up for
leaving, when my grandfather chanced to go to see how his work
proceeded; he told him his design, for that he thought ‘twas
impossible to work thro’ the quarry. My grandfather was much set on
accomplishing it, and therefore he encouraged the man to fall on
afresh, promising him that, if he would get him water, he would give
him the horse he rode upon, above what he had contracted for, and I
suppose he was not a very mean one, for he commonly kept a good horse,
I’ve been told.
Being thus animated he falls on
couragiously, and within a day or two (but I think it was the very
next day) he got water; and excellent fine water it is; at which I
have many a time quenched my thirst, and at some times (as when nutts
are in hand upon Barnsdale, or in harvest time) there is a constant
resort of people, especially in an afternoon, to drink, and also fill
their vessels, there being no water nigh it, so that ‘tis a publick
good; we should scarce know how to prize it enough had we such a thing
here. I could never perceive that the water was either much higher or
lower in the well; I am apt to think ‘tis a sort of a current in the
rock.
He was a hearty well-wisher to the
Revolution, and I have several times heard how, being upon the jury at
the quarter sessions of the peace held at Pontefract towards the close
(I suppose) of the short reign of the late King James, and having many
questions put to ‘em by a popish justice, he gave him such bold
answers, and withall reminded him of some things which he had formerly
heard him deliver from the same bench directly opposite to his present
preachment as (tho’ we may suppose it was not very gratefull to this
time-serving magistrate, yet) highly pleas’d many persons present.
And some of them told him afterward that he need not doubt but that he
was mark’d out for a singular favour, so soon as opportunity served;
but, blessed be God, both he and many thousands more were in a little
time delivered from their fears by the happy arrival of the Prince of
Orange.
After the death of my grandfather,
John Woodhouse, his widdow married one William Moore; one descended of a good family (as I’ve
been told) but in mean circumstances. This was highly displeasing to
her daughters-in-law; and the more so because she had the offers from
men in much better circumstances, and of one in particular, who, they
thought, would have contributed not a little towards their young
brother’s education, as himself freely offered. She had no child by
him, but lived many years with him; and after her death he married one
Mrs. Ruth Walker, relict of
. . Walker, of Haddlesey, and daughter of the Revd Mr.
Ralph Oates, who was many
years the rector of Smeaton, but had no child by her.
Chapter III
My father and mother were marryed
the eleventh day of May 1697, at Barmby-super-Dun, by the Revd.
Mr. Woodfin, minister of
Worsborough, nigh Barnsley, a pious, good man, for whom my dear mother
had a very great respect, and with whose daughters she was very
intimate. He granted licenses himself, and therefore was desired to
bring one with him when he came; but it happened that he did not bring
one. I think he had none by him; and therefore the old parson of
Barmby, whose name was Fielding,
a poor illiterate man, but by some means had got into deacon’s
orders, was very scrupulous, and for some time refus’d to permit
them to go into the church, notwithstanding they offered him any
security to indemnifye him; but all would not do, till Mr. Gregory, who was his master
(being the impropriator), hearing of it, soon gave them admittance. I
suppose the old man was offended because he was not to marry ‘em,
but by this day’s work he very much disobliged my father’s old
aunt Jane Fretwell, who had been a kind friend to the poor old parson.
I think my mother was now with Coz.
Atkinson of
Hatfield-Woodhouse, and, as the company were going thither on the
wedding-day morning, an accident happened which might have damped all
their pleasure, and turn’d it into a day of mourning; for pressing
too many at once into the ferry-boat, she sunk under them; but by the
good Providence of God they were all preserved.
After they had got marreyed they
came to Thorp; my father had newly built this house, and it was not
quite finished when he brought my mother to it. Here she spent the
remainder of her days in a great variety of usefulness, and not a more
serviceable person ever came to Thorp in the memory of man than she
has been. I may speak it (I think) without vanity.
My father and mother had five
children, whose births were as follows:
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James, born Wednesday the 22nd of Novr.
1699, half an hour past 10 at night, and baptized Decr. 5th
following. |
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John, born Monday the first day of June 1702,
about half an hour past 9 in the morning, and baptized on Thursday
the 2nd day of July next following. |
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Mary, born on Wednesday the first day of Novr.
1704, (exact 4 years after the death of her grandmother Mary
Fretwell), about three in the afternoon, and baptized the 9th
of Novr. next following. |
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William, born Wednesday the 21st of
July 1708, betwixt 6 and 7 in the evening, and baptized on Tuesday
the 17th of August following. |
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Elizabeth, born Fryday the 27th of
July 1711, half an hour after 9 in the morning, and baptized
August 23rd next following. |
Having now given an account of the
time of my birth, as also of my brothers and sisters, I proceed to
give some account of our education; and shall begin with my own, as
being the eldest.
I was a very weakly child, and my
mother a very tender, weakly women, so that for some time ‘twas not
expected that I could live; yet my mother nursed me herself (as she
did all her children), tho’ she was ill able to perform such a task.
But it pleased God to enable her to do it, and thro’ the good hand
of my God upon me I continue hitherto.
As soon as I was capable of
learning, she sent me to an old school dame, who lived at the very
next door, whose name was Theodosia Morehouse; but I suppose I did but continue here
a few days, for growing weary of my book, and my dame not correcting
me as my mother desired, she took me under her own pedagogy untill I
could read in my Bible; and thus she did afterwards by all my brothers
and sisters, tho’ she had a large family to oversee and provide for;
and I cannot but gratefully remember her pious care of my education,
when I see (as I very often do) several mothers who have not that
hurry of business upon their hands which she had, who yet will not
take the trouble of teaching their children as she did. But it was her
delightfull employ, for which she would find some proper time every
day; often making use of these words of Moses, Deut. vi. 6-7 : And
these words, which I commend thee this day, shall be in thine heart;
and thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk
to them when thou sittest in thy house, and when thou walkest by the
way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up. And this
was her method of catechising.
And, as my capacity was able, she caused me to
observe what I read, so that I soon began to take some notice of
several historical passages in the Old Testament, by which I could
find where my lesson was, when I neither knew the chapter or verse
perhaps; and were this more observed by those employ'd in the teaching
of children, I’m perswaded both the teacher and learner would find
very great benefit by it.
Chapter IV
And now, my dear mother being
desirous that I should have a little more learning than she was
capable of giving me, she went with me to Kirk-Sanda1 school, where
one Mr. Edward Ounsworth
was then master, and I suppose accounted a very good master, where, at
our entrance, being, I suppose, employ’d with some of his scholars,
[he] placed me amongst some little ones, such as myself, till he had
done with them; when calling me up to hear what I could say for
myself, he finding me better than he expected, removed me higher,
asking my mother if she had brought me an Accidence, which I think she
had; so she had the pleasure of seeing me removed out of the horn-book
class, which my master upon first sight thought most suitable for me,
with which she was not a little pleased.
I am not certain as to the time of
my first going to Sandal, but I suppose it might be in June 1704, for
I find by a letter from my uncle, John Woodhouse, bearing date April
the 11th 1705, that my master was then dead, for he writes
that he was sorry for my loss of so mild a master, of which, I
suppose, my dear mother had given him an account, for she greatly
lamented his death: but he had heard of it the day before be received
her’s so that it must have been some time in the fore going summer;
and, as I remember [to] have heard my mother say that it was on or
about the longest day, which is in June.
At my first going to Sandal, I
walked it every day, but was not able to hold it long, it being too
farr for such a child to go daily, for I was not quite 6 years of age:
and some boys who went with me, being much older, hurried me too fast,
and sometimes left me behind, so that I came home weeping; therefore,
after a short time, my father boarded me at Sandall, with one Mary Stanniforth, a widdow
woman, who took good care of me, and I usually came home every
Saturday; with her I continued so long as she lived.
After the death of Mr. Ounsworth came Mr. Thomas Mawhood, son of John Mawhood,
of Skellow, to be the master of this school, and was boarded in the
same house with me. I think I left the school immediately after the
death of my good old nurse. My brother John was with me some time
before I left Sandall.
I think it was about the beginning
of February 1708-9 that my brother John and I were sent to Stoney
Stainton, where we were under the care of an old acquaintance of my
father’s, the Revd Mr. Sam. Creswick. He was a very good school-master, and
I think grounded his scholars in their grammar rules the best that I
ever knew any one, only he was too severe, tho’ I was never whip’t
at school by any of my masters. Here we continued till about the
beginning of February 1712-3 as I compute, and I had made an entrance
into Greek. Here we were boarded with John Perkin, who married one Margaret Holmes, a near relation of my
father’s, and who had been formerly servant to him. She was a clean,
homely woman, and had a large family, which she ordered frugally and
prudently.
The next school we were sent to was
Doncaster free school, the Revd Mr. Edmund Withers was then the master.
He is a good scholar, but was not so diligent as he should have been,
so that the school declined very much of late years, and he was either
desired, or obliged, to give it up some time ago. I think I was but
one year here, viz. untill January the 30th, 1713-4. We
were boarded at Doncaster with one Mrs. Jarret, a widdow woman, then living next door
save one to the Angel inn in Doncaster, and had for many years before
kept a public-house at the Sun, in the market-place there where my
father had inned many years. But after I left Doncaster, my brother
John was remov'd to Mr. Jos. Bayley's,
who married Eliza, the daughter of Mr. Wm. Rodwell, of whom I spoke. How long he continued
I do not remember.
And now, my father thinking that I had got as much
of the learned languages as would be of any service to a tradesman,
indeed more than I have retained, thought it time to set me to learn
something which more immediately related to the qualifying of me for
business: therefore he sent me to Pontefract, to learn to write and
accompt which I did with one Joshua Marsden, a quaker by profession, but a very
ingenious man. He was not constantly in the school himself, having an
apprentice called Mark Burleigh,
who attended the school, and was a good penman: he also kept a
linnen-draper's shop.
I had learn'd some little to write
before, but nothing of accounts that I remember. Here it was that I
got what learning I have of that kind. I went through most of the
rules of vulgar arithmetick, and decimal fractions, with some little
of practical geometry. I went to Pontefract February ye 8th
1713-4, according to my computation (which I believe is right), and
came from there April 16th, 1716. I was boarded with John Lapidge, a mercer.
Having now acquired so much learning
as was thought necessary for me, and indeed as could be expected for
one of my degree, my parents next care was to put me to some trade or
business by which I might get an honest living in the world; but being
disappointed in the choice of one or two whom they had pitched upon as
a master for me, at last concluded to take me to my father’s
business. This I’ve oft lamented, for I think they did not duly
consider which way my genius tended.
Chapter V
Being now taken home from school, my
father began to put me to business, for the better understanding of
which he thought proper for me to be acquainted with the working part;
and, to that end, I was put to rive laths and hew wood, for a little
time, with my father’s workmen, who had always the benefit of what
little work I could do, for instructing me.
The first place (as I remember) that
I went to work at was in a spring wood nigh Stubs-Walding, called Bird
Spring, which my father bought of James Yarburgh, esq., of Heslington, nigh York. Here I
was instructed by Joshua Linley
(who is at this present working for us) in riving laths and tree
nails, &c. I think it was the 26th day of July, 1715,
that I made my first entrance, and was boarded with my uncle, Michael
Woodhouse, at Stubs-Walding. After this I went to Edlington, with
Joshua Lindey, to work in the wood there, and was boarded with Mr.
John Wasteneys. I also wrought with him in Burghwallis wood. This, I
think, was in the year following, viz. 1716. Here, I think, my brother
John went with me, and we came home every night.
In the year 1717 my father had a
bargain of wood at Womersley, in partnership with Mr. Matthew Northall and Mr. Ibbotson, which they had
bought of Tobiah Harvey,
esq., in a wood called Broad-oak Spring; here I was great part of the
summer amongst the workmen, and kept the accounts belonging to this
wood. I was boarded now with my uncle Woodhouse at Stubs.
I think my uncle John Woodhouse, who resided at
London, made us a visit this summer; and I suppose it was agreed
betwixt my parents and him that I should go and spend the following
winter with him, which I accordingly did.
Chapter VI
I set out for London on Monday,
November the eleventh, 1717, early in the morning, and called at John Schofield's of Sandal,
where was one Mr. William Woodcock,
his wife’s brother, who came from Hatfield, and had his company to
London. We breakfasted at Bawtry, where I had an opportunity of seeing
some of our relations from Maltbey, it being the fair-day William Ward went with us as far as the
Eel-pye house, but my father to Newark, and tarried all night with us.
I think we lodged at the Rain-Deer, and parted early in the morning;
my dear father returning homeward, and I and my fellow-traveller
pursuing our journey; and that night we slept at Stamford, I think at
the Sun, being the York carriers inn; and the night following at the
post-house in Caxton; and on Thursday night we lodged at Mr. Thomas Rainor’s, at the Black Bull
inn at Ware, who was brother to our (then) neighbour James Rainor of
Thorpe. Here I met with a letter from my uncle to Mr. Rainor,
wherein he wrote that he was to have met me at his house, but being
term time he could not get out of town; so desired that I would make
the best of my way to his lodgeing, which I did the next morning,
where I was courteously received. We were five days upon this journey,
so that we did not over hurry ourselves. My uncle lodged at one Mr. Reed’s, in St. Christopher’s
Churchyard, in Threadneedle Street, behind the Royal Exchange. We
continued here for some time, and then removed to one Mr. Marshall’s,
an apothecary in the Poultry, opposite the Counter, untill my uncle
got an house in Grocer’s Alley, the first (as I remember) on the
left hand going into the Alley out of the Poultry. Here I was when I
begun my Diary, which I have ever since continued, and out of which I
design to extract what is most remarkable in my further prosecution of
this work.
Chapter VII
I begun my diary on Monday, the 18th
day of December, 1718, being then in London, with my uncle John
Woodhouse, one of the attorneys of the Sheriff's Court, who had but
lately begun to keep house, and at that time my aunt H[annah]
Woodhouse, of Stubs, was with us; she coming to see her second son
William Woodhouse, who was an apprentice to one Mr. Godwin, an upholsterer; he was
a sober youth, and very likely to have been a very good workman, if it
had pleased God to have spared him; but he dyed before the expiration
of his apprenticeship.
I was at this time, and had been for
six weeks or more, lame of a knee, but now begun to amend. I was under
the care of one Mr. Stanton,
a surgeon: the occasion of it (as I thought) was a cold got by sitting
up late (and sometimes sleeping) for my uncle’s coming in, before he
kept house, or had a servant. It proved a white swelling, but had no
sore; and, blessed be God, in a short time after I recovered the use
and strength of it. My dear mother was under very great concern for me
whilst I was lame, and, tho’ very weakly herself; would gladly have
come to London to me, but I endeavoured to give her what satisfaction
I could by letters, untill I was thoroughly well.
Saturday, Decr. 20th, 1718
I was at the feast of the clerks of the Sheriff’s Court, which was
held at the Horn tavern, Doctor’s Commons. I suppose it is an annual
custom with them. Mr. Mellish
and Mr. Perkins, clerks to
Mr. Tims, were stewards at
this time, 1 think.
Monday, Decr. 22nd, 1718
My uncle took one John Silvester,
c1erk. He was son to one Mr. Silvester, living in Walbrook; he had 100
guineas with him.
Monday, Jan. 19th, 1718-9
My aunt Woodhouse set out from London, in the Wakefield coach, for
Doncaster.
Thursday, March 5th, 1718-9
Yesterday my uncle had a letter from my father,
and hears aunt Bower is dead, and was buried last Monday
seven-night (as I remember).
Thursday, May 14th, 1719
My uncle Hill, of Fishlock, and his son John, arrived in London.
Monday, May 18th
My two uncles having been out of town, as they return'd in the evening
uncle Woodhouse had the misfortune to put out his right shoulder, by
his horse falling. I went for Mr. Stanton (my surgeon), who put it in its place.
Wednesday, May 27th
Uncle Hill left London.
Wednesday, June the 24th
I set out of London for Yorkshire, and got to my unc1e Fretwell’s,
at Maltbey, late on Fryday night; and the next day I got to Thorp;
when several neighbours came to see me.
Fryday, July ye 17th, 1719
I went with my dear mother to uncle Shaw’s funeral. He was an alderman of
Doncaster, and his wife was (I think) sister to my father’s mother.
Monday, July the 27th, 1719
I went with uncle Fretwell to Buxton Bath. We tarried till Fryday, the
31st, and calling at cousin Oxley ’s at Sheffield they obliged me to tarry
all night; and in the morning my horse was not to be found, which
hindered me a long time; after I was taken with an ague fit, and was
very ill; but in the evening I came to Maltby, tho’ I was very ill
when I mounted. I was cold and not very well when I bathed on Thursday
night before. I got home on Sunday evening, and had a bad night;
continued ill all day on Monday, and was delirious. The night
following I got some rest (blessed be God); my dear mother sate up
with me till betwixt 3 and 4 a clock. The next day, being Tuesday, the
4th of June, I was something better; at night took a vomit,
but was very sick after it; had some sick fits for several days after.
Several of the family was taken ill about ye same time.
Monday, September 21st, 1719
Being now pretty well recovered, and having seen all my relations,
this day set out for London, in company with Mrs. Middleton and Richard Rainor. We got to Ware on
Wednesday night, where we left Richard Rainor at his uncle’s, and
got to London about three a clock the next day.
My dear mother was exceedingly troubled at our parting, as she had
been very much concerned for me indeed all the time I was at London,
especially during the time of my lameness. She went to prayer with me
before I set out for my journey, and I doubt not but her prayers
followed me to the end of it. My father, William Ward, and John Young, and Mrs. Middleton’s brother, Mr. Lanc[elot] Routh,
came with us to Bawtry.
Sunday, October 5th, 1719
Cousin John Hill left London; and at Ware he was to meet with Richard Rainor, who was returning into
the country, which I think he did. Coz. Hill had been with one Mr. Goldsmith, a cheesemonger in
Thames Street, but did not choose to tarry with him.
Monday, October ye 19th, 1719
I received a letter from my father, with the sorrowful account of my
mother’s having been very ill, as also brother John; and that
brother William had a tertian ague; and of the death of several
neighbours since I was in the country.
Monday, November 2nd, 1719
I heard that Mr. Wilcox was
dead, I think the day before. He was my uncle’s first master, of
whom I shall have occasion to speak hereafter.
Monday, Decr. 14th, 1719
I was a witness to mortgage deeds of my uncle’s estate at Norton to
Tho[mas] Yarborough,
esq. of Campsall, for 500 pounds.
Sunday, February, ye 14th, 1719
In the afternoon, my uncle went to hear cousin Joseph Woodhouse’s
funeral sermon, and I followed him. It was preached at a little
meeting-house, a little beyond St. Julie’s church, in an alley, on
the other side of the way. Text was Prov. xiv. 32, But the
righteous hath hope in his death. He made a very good sermon; and
toward the close he said that of late funeral sermons had been much
abus’d, and such enconiums and flatteries put upon the dead as were
not becoming; but begged leave to speak a word or two of his own
knowledge concerning the deceased friend. One thing he commended him
for was his great patience under his late great loss by fire; for his
reading in his family, and causing his servants to read the holy
Scriptures, upon the Lord’s Day especially, and calling upon his
family to join with him in prayer; for his charity to poor ministers
of several denominations, and towards the cloathing poor children; and
to all in general.
I think he said he ordered at his death something to be given to
the poor ministers. I think he also said that several projects for the
public good were gone with him. And that he was always desirous to
learn divine things. There was a collection, which I think was for the
poor ministers.
I do not know very well how nearly he was related to us, but I
believe he was a nigh relation. I think his father went out of this
part of the country, and was a leather-dresser, by which he had
acquired a very good estate; but for some time before his death (which
happened when I was in the country the summer before) was unfit for
business, by reason of the palsy; and (as I remember) was informed
that, upon turning over his business to his son, he was to pay him
three hundred pounds per annum during life. I heard of cousin Joseph
Woodhouse’s death the 4th of February 1719. I have been
at his house several times. He lived in Horsley-down, Southwark.
At my first coming to London, my father only proposed for me to
tarry the following winter with my uncle; but, meeting with some
disappointments (as I suppose) in the way of business, was very much
concerned upon my account, and after several letters had past amongst
us ‘twas resolved for me to tarry with my uncle in the quality of a
clerk; and he was pleased to tell my father that he preferred me
without any premium before another with a sum of money. I had no great
inclination to it, but found my father had rather a desire for me to
stay at London, tho’ he left me entirely to my own choice in that as
well as in what business I could like to follow; but I thought myself
too old to serve an apprenticeship for seven years. My uncle was not
unkind to me, but I begun now to fear that I should not be so
thoroughly instructed in my business as I could wish; and I feared
that my uncle made no great improvement in the world, which made me
uneasie. I acquainted my parents with it, and, after some time,
concluded for me to leave him, which very much displeased my uncle.
Monday, February 29th, 1719
I set forward for Yorkshire in the Mansfield waggon, which came only
to Nottingham, and thither they sent horses to bring the passengers to
Mansfield, where we arrived on Saturday.
Sunday, March 6th
Brother John came to meet me, and we came to Maltbey that night, and
home the day following.
Saturday, August the 20th, 1720
I went to Tickhil, to the funeral of aunt Campsal (who was grandmother
by the mother’s side to cousin Eliz. Robinson) sister, as I take it, to my
grandmother Fretwell.
Thursday, August 25th, 1720
My uncle John Woodhouse came to Thorp, and the next day I went with
him to Rushamore, to shew him the way. His business at that time in
the country was about selling his estate, which was no small trouble
to my dear mother. She spoke to him with greater freedom than was
pleasing to him, which he resented for some time. Whilst he was in the
country he had the misfortune to put out his shoulder by a fall, and
was ill for some time. He did not sell his estate during his stay
here; my father had treated with him for it, but could not agree.
Saturday, Decr. 3rd, 1720
We received a letter from him (which I did not expect), wherein he
accepted of my father’s proposals, which was to take 1,000 pounds
for his estate, and to abate 401. for the five years of William
Moore's lease, which were
not expired.
Monday, July 17th, 1721
We received a letter from uncle John Woodhouse, wherein he acquainted
us that he entered into the state of matrimony the 6th of
the preceding month. I am altogether unacquainted with the person whom
he married, but supposes her to be one to whom he had made his
addresses for some time before I left London. I think she was a
widdow, and lived at Hackney; and (if I mistake not) he had been a
lover of her’s before her marriage.
Tuesday, July 25th 1721
We received (by way of Stubs) the sorrowful news of my dear cousin
William Woodhouse’s death, and that he was to be interred the night
before (being ye 24th of June). Sorrowfull news indeed; and
what made it still more so was that we expected to have seen him in
the country at that very time; perhaps he had designed to have set out
for London the very day on which he was buryed, and they had made
preparations for the reception of so great a stranger, and so welcome
a guest, at his father’s house; but his Heavenly Father had
otherwise determined, and, I hope, received him into those blessed
mansions of light and glory in his heavenly Father’s house, which,
being duly considered, was infinitely more to his advantage than any
satisfaction he could have enjoyed in a few days spent in carnal mirth
amongst his relations here; and therefore we have great reason to
submit to the wise dispensations of Providence.
Monday, July 31st, 1721
Was my uncle Michael Woodhouse buryed. He survived his son exactly one
week.
Wednesday, August 9th, 1721
I went to Snayth, to load a keel, whereof Richard Dowson went master; but before they had done,
was taken ill, so that I was forced to leave them, and came to Mr.
Lanc[elot] Routh’s at Pollington; when, growing worse, they sent
Tho[mas] Jenkinson for my
dear mother, who came that night, and brother John with her, but I did
not know her. In the morning my mother came down staires, and left me,
when immediately I got up and followed her down, but was suprized to
see her, and now I knew her, and was so much better as to ride home.
My mother would have had Mr. Wheatley,
of Pontefract, apothecary, sent for, but Mrs. Routh perswaded her to
the contrary, being of opinion that I could not live untill such time
as he could get thither; but having obtained mercy, I continue
hitherto. On the Fryday night following I was exceeding ill, so that
Mr. Wheatley was sent for, and came to me on Saturday morning, the 12th
of August, and by God's blessing upon his endeavours, after some time
I recovered. My brother John had the ague very ill about this time;
indeed it was very common; both my father and brother and self having
been troubled very ill with it the fore going winter, as I was also
the spring following.
Tuesday, August 21st, 1722
Was laid the foundation of the brew-house at Thorp, which was reared
the 20th of September following.
Sunday, September 30th, 1722
My brother John and sister Mary went to Stockwith, to see the ceremony
of the consecration of the new chappel, built there pursuant to the
will of the late Mr. William Hungtington, ship-wright, whose body was removed
from their parish church of Mysterton and laid in his own chappel, the
day following.
The same day, viz. Sunday, September 30th 1722, was
Elizabeth Woodhouse, daughter of cousin John Woodhouse, of Norton
(whose father, Robert Woodhouse, was brother to my grandfather John
Woodhouse), married to Mr. William Godfrey, of Hook; a man of good estate.
Saturday, October 6th, 1722
Came cousin Elizabeth Husband,
of Tickhill, to Thorp, who told us that her daughter Mary (who was
their only child) was married, the 16th of September
foregoing, to one Thomas Robinson,
but without her parent’s knowledge, much 1ess with their consent;
but, since it could not be undone, they took him to them, and
instructed him in her father’s business, who was a tanner; and he
proves a very good husband. I suppose she was not quite 17 years of
age when she was married.
Monday, April 1st, 1723
My brother William went to Doncaster, to Mr. Henry Abbey chandler and grocer, to see how he liked
that business; and his indentures were executed on Thursday the 9th
of May, but was bound for seven years; but, by a particular agreement,
was to be at liberty at Martinmas 1729.
Saturday, June 4th, 1723
Unc1e Hill shewed me a letter from uncle Woodhouse to aunt Hill,
wherein he acquainted her that he was become the father of a son.
Saturday, March 16th, 1723-4
I accompanied to the grave the corpse of my dear cousin, John
Wasteneys, of Maltbey, who died in the 26th year of his
age. A very sober, hopefull young man, a great comfort to his poor
mother, and a father to the younger children (as it were). He was
justly lamented by his friends and acquaintance, and especially by my
dear brother, who shortly after was summoned to follow him.
Sunday, June 7th, 1724
In the morning my father and mother, brother John, sister Mary, and
myself, went to Barmby Dun; but coming there heard that there would be
no service, so all went on to Sandal, where Mr. Holmes preached from Proverbs xxvii. 1: Boast
not thyself of to-morrow; for thou knowest not what a day may bring
forth. A very suitable discourse at any time, but I have since
thought that it was very remarkably so at that time, for then was the
text eminently verified.
My father and mother dined that day at John Schofield’s of Sandal, but we came home; and I
went in the afternoon to Barmby to meet ‘em, when Mr. Lisle preached from Matthew xvi.
24.
I think my poor brother laid down as soon be got in from church (in
the forenoon, or at noon rather); however, in the afternoon he had a
very sore fitt of the ague; had a bad night, and so continued the next
day.
Tuesday, June 9th, 1724
I went to Rotherham about some business, and, as I came home in the
evening, called of brother William, at Doncaster, who came home with
me. At our entering into the town, my brother, seeing a neighbour,
asked her how she did. I think she answered, ‘I'm sorry for your
loss.’ This surpriz’d me. Asking her what was the matter, I think
she answered, ‘Nay, nothing.’ ‘Then,’ said I, ‘how doth
Jonny do?’ She answered, ‘Well.’ I now understood her meaning,
for I found my dear brother dead; but I hope all was well with him.
When I went from home, in the morning, we hoped he was something
better. He dyed about half an hour past two a clock in the afternoon.
He was a dutiful son, a loving brother, and a good neighbour; a
sober, serious youth; took delight in husbandry and graseing; and for
his yeares had good judgement in it; was just entered into the 23rd
year of his age.
His corps were carryed into the church of Barmby Dun, the 10th,
at night, and was interred the day following, being Thursday, June 11th,
1724, near unto William Fretwell, my father’s uncle; being before
the south door, or porch door, in the churchyard. The bearers were
cousin John Bower (who
lately had done the same for cousin John Wasteneys), cousin William
Wasteneys, cousin John Hill, coz. Robert Atkinson, cousin Tho[mas] Oughtibridge, cousin . . Doughty, cousin John
Woodhouse, of Stubs, and Joseph Foster.
This was the first breach made in our family; nay, what is something
more remarkable, the first time that death entered into this house,
which was built in the year 1696. We all sorrowed very much, as we had
great reason; but especially my dear mother; she mourned for him
several years, if not all the remainder of her days. I’m afraid it
broke in too much upon all her other enjoyments.
Monday, October 26th, 1724
My father was at the funeral of cousin John Woodhouse, of the Cross
house, in Norton; the Revd Mr. Tho[mas] Cleworth preaching on the
occasion, from Psalm xxxix. 5: Behold, Thou hast made my days as an
hand-breadth, and mine age is as nothing before Thee: verily every man
at his best state is alltogether vanity. Selah.
He told them, altho’ he used not to characterize people, yet if
he said not thus much he did not do him justice, viz. ‘That he was
an honest, peaceable man; a constant attender upon the Word preached,
and also in the offering up of his evening sacrifice;’ all which I
believe was true. He met with some troubles in his marriage state; so
that he did not live so happily as some in much lower circumstances
has done.
Tuesday, October 19th, 1725
Uncle Richard Fretwell had a daughter baptised to the name of Ruth.
Chapter VIII
Wednesday, May 11th, 1726
I brought sister Mary with me to Norton (where I had been going and
coming some days) to begin house-keeping, in the house which my father
had purchased of my uncle, John Woodhouse. I observe it was the same
day on which my father was married.
Thursday, June 9th, 1726
My aunt Hill came to Norton, and told me that my uncle, John
Woodhouse, was buried on Monday in Whitsun-week, which I find was May
30th, 1726. I had heard of his death a few days before. He
was but just entred into the 41st year of his age.
I have given an account of his birth, as above, and, for his
education and future course of life, what little know of it, shall
give it room in this place. I think he was sometime a scholar to Mr.
Edward Robinson, at
Campsal, who for several years towards the close of his time taught
school at Rossington. I remember him very well; my dear mother
respected him, and gave him a general invitation to Thorp feast every
year, so long as he and she lived; and I think he never was wanting on
the Sunday; sometimes we had few or no guests besides him. Afterwards
(I suppose it was that) he was sent to Worsborough, nigh Barnsley.
His mother was not very kind to him, tho’ her only son, so that I
suppose he had a desire to leave her; and some have thought that she
feared, if he had been brought up to country business, that in a few
years he would be for removing her out of his house. But, whatever was
the reason, he was sent to London, to one Mr. Wilcocks (his mother’s nephew– I think his
Christian name was George), an attorney. When this was I cannot find
out the precise time, but by a letter now before me, dated December 16th,
1704, I find he was there at that time, and continued with him untill
the 3rd of October, 1706, when he wrote, ‘this day I and
Mr. Wilcocks parted;’ and I suppose that he went to cousin Joseph
Woodhouse’s for he writes (8br 8, 1706) ‘direct for me
at Mr. Joseph Woodhouse’s, near Horsley down, Southwark.’ Both
these letters was to desire my father to send him a small supply of
money, which I suppose he did; for I find that he returned him thanks
for it, in a letter dated November 5th, 1706, and further
says that he pitched upon another master, one Mr. Mead, an attorney in Walbrook, and that Mr.
Wilcocks had been with this gentleman to give him a character, and
offered him security for his fidelity, which he thought a great turn
of affairs, because they had differed so ill; the occasion whereof
will best appear from a letter of his bearing date 10ber 12th,
1706 (but is imperfect) :
‘LOVING BROTHER, —This comes to acquaint you that I have recd.
yours, for which I return you many thanks, as well as for other
civilities and at the same time I received one from father, which is
much to my satisfaction, for he acquaints me that Mr. Wilcocks doth not accuse
me with any neglect, nor any other crime, but rather seems to wonder
at my leaving him, not seeming to know any reason; but excuses it,
and tells them that, when he asked me my reason, I told him it were
better for so near relations to be at a greater distance, and, the
better to gild this pill, proffers to assist my father with what
money he shall have occasion for, and to do me any kindness, if I
will but be so free as to let him know it. So my father hath order'd
me to receive 301., upon his account, of Mr. Wilcocks, which
I hope will be sufficient to settle me with my other master, and to
bring me a journey into Yorkshire before I want any further
assistance; so all apprehension of those difficulties is fled from
me that I once was supprest under, and I hope I have got have got a
master that will be much to my satisfaction; and the greatest
difficulties I now lye under is to repay these civilities that
relations hath served me with; for cousin Woodhouse and his son, at
whose house I was, treated me with brother-like kindness, and both
cousin Morrise and her
husband was glad to serve me, and was ashamed at Mr. Wilcocks’
treatment. And now, having more leisure, I have made bold to
enlarge, and set out the particular kindnesses that Mr. Wilcocks
hath shown me. First, I being to pay him 201. that was due at
Michaelmas last, he would not deliver me my articles till it was
paid; having but 10l. I was forced to borrow ten more, so went to
pay him; but first then I desired him to accept of my note for the
whole, and then for part, which he excepted against with a course.
But, at the last, I offering to tender the money, he proffered to
accept of my note for the whole, and to lend me any other sum upon
the same security, and asked me what I intended to do. I told him,
serve another master, and acquainted him who I had thoughts to
serve, and that I expected he would come to him for a character of
me, and desired him to do me justice; so he went to my new master
and gave me a very good character (which I hope he had no other
occasion to do), and proferred him to be security for my honesty,
which he then seemed to require, being altogether a stranger to me;
and immediately meeting me, told me what he had done, and desired me
not to trouble any other friend. So I returned him thanks and
promised him I would not. So, going to my master, agreed with him
upon terms, and was to go to him 9ber the sixth; so, on
the fifth, I acquainted Mr. Wilcocks with what I had done, and that
I would write that night to father and mother, so he desired me to
let them know what he had done for me (which I did). But, he seeing
my master again that hour told him he would not be concerned for me,
and that I was––(I can’t express). So (as before appointed),
going to my master’s, asked me what disagreement I had had with
Mr. Wilcocks since he see me; so I acquainted him what he desired me
to do the day before, which he much wondred at; but, I seeing as if
I had no hopes of staying with him, he desired me to stay, and set
me about business. But, the first opportunity, I slip’d out, to
hunt the deceitful fox, and found him in Exchange alley (so I am not
debarr'd from all country exercise), where I did not spare with my
tongue, and could scarce forbear using my hands, but, while we were
at high words, my master jumped upon us, and, knowing the case, told
Mr. Wilcocks he wondered that a gentleman would behave himself so
ungenteelly as to shrink from his word &c. So I hope his
incivilitys have been serviceable to me, for my late master never
required any further security. I frequently see Mr. Wilcocks, but we
never speak; but when I went to him about 30l. I believe this last
incivilitie arose because I would not accept of the money he profer’d
to lend me, or for fear I should accept thereof (whether I cannot
judge), but the old verse, Felix quem faciunt aliena pericula
cautum, was my caution to beware at my own, and, indeed, so seemed
to slight his proffer’d kindness; but finding it to be for my own
convenience, I let him accept of my note for 10l., and paid him ten,
so return'd the other ten to cousin Jos. Woodhouse, of whom I
borrowed it . . Woodhouse to go to Mr. Wilcocks that he might make
some objections against . . but he . . through his generous temper,
but told him withal he wondered that I did not shame to ask cousin .
. Woodhouse any favours, for he affirmed to him that I had behaved
myself so abruptly in leaving him, that neither he nor father nor
mother, nor never a brother I had would . . me, &c. But I let
him know his mistake, and told him he might blush to affirm such a .
. this is but some of the uncivilitys I have been treated with, I am
to serve my other master . . easier terms than I did Mr. Wilcocks,
having 20s. a term, which I should have had of Mr. Wilcocks . . had
not, and what I made my excuse to leave him for . . This is most of
what at . . remember. . beg your patience in perusing so tedious a
thing, and begs of you to let sister see . . and my sister . . at
your leisure.’
By another letter of his, bearing date December 24th,
1706, to his father-in-law, which accidenta1ly is come to my hand,
finds he had some difficulties to get the money of Mr. Wilcocks which his father
had ordered him. I shall transcribe his own words.
‘Sir.- On Fryday last I received the 30l. of Mr. Wilcocks, and
gave him a receipt for the same, and a note to you, to satisfy you
that I had received which, he said, he would underwrite, and send to
you. I took up my note that I had given him for ten pounds in part
of that thirty, but was forced to borrow four pounds to make up the
money that I have paid to my master, which I did on Saturday last,
and executed my articles. I waited several times on Mr. Wilcocks
before he would let me have the money, or appoint any time when he
would, but seemed very much to huff at me; but on Wednesday last I
went to him, and told him it would not be of any service to me
unless he would let me have it before my master was going out of
town; therefore desired him to give me a positive answer, which he
then did, and appointed Friday, but I believe the reason that he was
so for delaying me till the furthest time you appointed was because
money was out of his hand, which I knew, therefore was willing to
take up my note, altho’ he profferr’d me to forego it, and let
me have thirty pounds. When I received the money he freely promised
me any services, which I shall be as willing to accept of; and to
repay according to my capacity . . ’
And, in another letter to his father, bearing date the 13th
of May, 1708, he writes that now the time beginning to draw to a
period in which he must hope to betake himself to the world, he
acquaints him with his design of selling Robert Lathom’s house, &c., which (I think) was
purchased by his aunt Alice Woodhouse.
In another of his letters to my father, dated November 15th,
1712, he writes, ‘Since my mother’s death I received a line from
brother Hill to acquaint me that I must expect no greater legacy than
my sisters, which I understand is nothing; not so much as a small
token of remembrance.’ He orders to direct for him at Mr. Bolton’s, by the Poultry
compter.
By another to my father, bearing date March 17th, 1712,
he writes that his father Moore
wrote to him the night before, to know his resolution about continuing
him tennant, but find they came to no agreement by writing, so that
his father went to London, the spring following, to treat with him;
and on this occasion he writes thus :
London, May 19th, 1713
LOVING BROTHER,—After my thanks to my sister for her kind epistle,
I am to acquaint you that the gentleman she advised of was got to
town some days before her’s came to hand. After some frivolous
pretences for his coming to town, I was told some part of his
message was to me, to know if I would continue him tenant. I told
him I did not except against him, provided we could come to terms,
and hoped, as he had made his fortune out of my estate, he would
give me 51. per annum extraordinary. To encourage him to be a little
generous, I told him I had thoughts of matrimony, and as I was not
endowed with such bright parts as several others, nor other personal
recommendations, I must endeavour to make my estate look with all
advantages, in hopes to advance a 100l. in a wife’s fortune. I
received a great many fair promises of his kindness, and to be made
a child at his death. I let him know that I had already been amused
by such promises, and suffered myself to be injured. I, in soft
words, showed him in what and how I was prevented from righting
myself, which I am apt to think made him sensible of a little guilt.
We had several other conferences, but, according to our usual
method, nothing could be concluded till he was for going. I invited
him, couz. R., Mr. Wilcocks
&c., to my lodgings overnight; and about 12 a clock, when all
other company left us, we begun to renew our treaty. After some soft
words we came to high ones, but neither would work upon me, for I
insisted upon my full demands. I can’t tell you what civilities
past betwixt us, except only desiring him to comply with my demands,
or to say no more about it, or to go home, for that I would not
suffer any discord in my lodgings that time a night. I shall not
trouble you with any more at present; it [is] possible you may have
had the whole detail of the story from couz. R. The next day he
complyed to my whole demands.’
And concludes that he hoped to be at Thorp the first or second week
in July. And, in his postscript, writes :
‘I told my father that I was very much troubled to hear that my
mother was no ways desirous to see me in her sickness, nor any ways
endeavoured to leave me so much as a ring, to remember; and being
conscious to myself that I always had rendred my duty to her, I was
apt to believe that he had eradecated me out of her favour by sly
and indirect insinuations, which made me not pay him that respect I
formerly did.’
He came into the country this summer, and executed a lease to his
father, which bears date the 12th day of August, 1713, for
the term of 12 years, to commence the 2nd day of February
the next ensuing, at the yearly rent of thirty-two pounds.
My uncle was admitted an attorney of the sherriff’s court,
January 14th, 1717-8. I find in one of my letters to my
father and mother that I wrote, that he gave about eleven hundred
pounds for it; but, by one of his to my dear mother, I find he writes
that it had cost him very near twelve hundred pounds, in which sum I
suppose he included the charge of his freedom, which he was obliged to
take, upon his purchasing his place; and also to give a treat to the
other gentlemen belonging to the court. He bought it (I think) of the
lord mayor and sherriffs, it being a dead man’s place, by which I
suppose he came to it at an easier rate than if he had bought it of
one of the attorneys of the court. I heard that he sold it for a great
deal more, but dyed before he had surrendered, so that that money was
entirely lost to his family.
I think a little after his admission into the sherriff’s court,
he was admitted an attorney of the court of King’s Bench.
He writes, December 22nd, 1720, that he must never
expect the use of his arm which he hurt when in the country; nor I
believe never did get quite well of it. He complains of it in several
other letters. December 29th, 1724 he writes that he had
lost 2 infant babes; and I find, by a letter of Mr. J. Wilcocks to William Moore, that he left a wife and
one child, which he believed wou1d not live. I think it is since dead.
I have, with an awfull sort of pleasure, transcribed so much of my
dear uncle’s letters, but does not expect they will be read with an
equal pleasure; for, in a little time there will arise another
generation, who knew not Joseph.
He was, as to his person pretty tall and proper, of a comely
complexion, and an excellent good temper; of a good character and
great fidelity to his clyents. I could never observe that he ever
abused them, but sometimes that he was rather too dilatory in his
proceedings, I thought. He did himself harm, I am afraid, by drinking
too freely towards the latter end of his time.
March 19th, 1726-7
I heard of the death of my aunt Eliz[abeth] Hill. I think she dyed the
day before. She was the youngest of my grandfather’s (Woodhouse’s)
children, by his first wife, and married one Thomas Hill, junr, of
Fishlock, by whom he had several children.
In the beginning of May 1727 brother William was taken with the
small-pox, but had them favourably. Towards the latter end of the same
month sister Eliz[abeth] had ‘em, and that very severely; but,
thanks be to God, they both got well over them.
In the night, betwixt the 12th and 13th of
October, 1727, dyed Alice Woodhouse, relict of Robert Woodhouse, of
Norton, (who was my grandfather’s only brother); I think she was
upwards of eighty years of age, and had lived very privately many
years. I suppose she was married very young, but made a good wife, and
an excellent country housewife. She had several children, but only one
survived her; had been many years a widdow, and greatly improved the
estate. She was buried at Campsal, on Sunday the 15th of
October.
Mr. Cleworth preached
on the occasion, from Acts xx. 32: And now, brethren, I
commend you to God, and to the Word of His grace, which is able to
build you up, and to give you an inheritance among all them which are
sanctified.
I think she made choice of these words herself.
Monday, January ye first, 1727-8
Early in the morning, dyed my aunt Hannah Woodhouse, of Stubs. She was
the eldest of grandfather Woodhouse’s children, and married one
Michael Woodhouse, of Stubs Walden, who, tho’ of the same name yet
no relation (that I know of). She had three sons by him, but lived
very unhappily. He was an extravagant man, and very much given to
excessive drinking, by which he impaired his estate.
June 9th, 1728
Cousin Stephen Husband, of
Tickhill, way buryed.
Fryday, February 28th, 1728-9
After dinner, I rode out upon a young mare, which I had but lately
broke, and had not given her any exercise for some time, so that she
was saucy. However, she carried me pretty well untill I had got a
little beyond Sheep-coat laythe, when my coat skirt (I thought)
affrighted her, and caused her to give a sudden and unexpected start,
whereby I lost my stirrup. She turn’d to the right hand to
Pontefract road, and soon dismounted me, dragging me by the right foot
(I think by the bridle), for many yards, untill my spurr broke, which
was of brass, and then she left me. I think she struck at me several
times, but, thro’ the good providence of Almighty God, she never
reached me. I was very stiff for some time; but, thanks to my
Protector, I recovered in a very short time. This was a signal
deliverance, which I pray God I never forget as long as I live; and
was followed by another to my dear sister shortly after.
Monday May 26th, 1729
My sister Mary going from Norton to Thorp, and had a boy rode before
her, and going down the hill at Campsall the mare either fell, or
threw ‘em down, by which she was very much hurt, and was taken up
for dead (I suppose), and carried into Joseph Bailey’s house, where, when I came, found one
of Mr. Frank’s sisters
with her, and a great many others. I got her let blood, and by care
she recovered it in a short time, blessed be God.
Tuesday, June 24th, 1729
I laid the first stone of the pigeon chamber at Norton; and it was
reared the 1st of September following.
April, 1730
I enclosed a little bitt of land in the West Field, by annexing it to
the north end of Newhil close.
April 10th, 1730
Dyed William Moore, of
Norton, and was buried the 12th of April, in the chancel at
Smeaton. It was his wife’s doing that he was carried thither; her
first husband, I suppose, being buried there, and her father’s
family. Mr. Cleworth
preached his funeral sermon, at Campsal, April 19th, 1730,
from John vi. 40.
April 28th, 1730
Cousin Elizabeth Wasteneys was married, at Maltbey, to one John Johnson, of Maltbey; and as
soon as they were married came (with uncle and aunt Fretwell) to my
house at Norton, and tarried untill May 1st following.
February, 1730-1
I enclosed a small piece of land in the East Field of Norton, in that
part called the Upper field, adjoyning to my own closes at
Spittle-rush-lane end.
Monday, November 1st, 1731
Dyed, uncle John Bower, of
Wickersley, and was buried on Wednesday following. He was a very
honest man, of great simplicity, and well beloved. He had been in a
lingering condition some time, occasioned by a fall from, or with, a
scaffold, at the Duke of Kingstone’s,
as I remember.
Saturday, May 27th, 1732
My dear mother going to visit a neighbour in the town, who was very
ill, as she alighted upon the side or edge of a stone trough, her foot
slip’d, and by the fall she was very much hurt, so that a
bone-setter was sent for. When he was come, he said there was no bone
broke or displaced, but that the muscle of the thigh was extremely
extended. She made use of crutches for some time, and had a sore
illness, during which she was under the care of Dr. Eyre and Mr. Malin; but it pleased God to restore her at this
time; but I think never to be so well as she was before.
Friday, November 17th, 1732
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